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Name: appu

this is very strange but ture problem of a wife finding faults with Mother, i,m so depressed to undergo the same torture at my home also, this wrote in relpe to some message sharing again for all. Why dont women understand that a women only is being punished everytime there is a fight in the family for DIL/MIL/SIL issues. Cant they understand its a crime to seperate a mother from her kids whom she has given all the best possible care, love etc(MOM-SON), when as a wife u fire/abuse & \";thats what u all women including my wife\"; do all the time infornt of spouses, to hurt the feelings of a men without any support from any corner. Can u accept once ur little kid who was always respecting all ur feelings suddenly ignore u coz his GF/Wife demanded so. what u will feel & what the pain the man will under go in such situations. U all have to introspect & think as a mom & then say that other women (MOM) are cunning as all this bad things will fall back on u too in the end. No person on earth is too good or too bad , every person is lovable, whether its ur MOM Hubby's MOM ur father or his father, dont have preconcieve notions & dont mess up the such precious life in finding fault with other human beings, Mr. joseph may be little to harsh, but u read his message, which clearly says dont conclude before MIL comes that she ll create problems. Physical abuse is not toleratable but emotional abuse is what cause havoc in peoples life, slapping a wife or even husband has a cause behind the act, try to find out that, a husband/wife will indulge in this act. only when one feel very hurt & helpless,can resort to such acts. I request all the men/women reading this message have a deep introspection of the life & relationships between the families. Solution lies in solving the problem. getting separated from husbands/wifes ll not help. What if next person or his/her family is worse than the current one. think & work on relations. I like \";LA's thoughts to some extent on relationships\";

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