Name: appu
Hi this aditya,
I have this habit of masturbating while watching nude, half nude women, models, heroines on T.V Net etc, although i,m married & having a wonderful wife, I read one message from soumya.
actually my problem is similiar to soumya's hubby. I have read all the messages & let me tell u, all r correct coz its not that I dont love my wife so i go for M.., but its in the mind to have fantasy & enjoy. I,m feeling guilty also, my wife is very good & we have great sex but there are cases, when even after having sex with my wife, I indulged in having virtual sex once my wife slept,. Mind u its uncontrollable, I went to doc & explained all this, He suggested to take some medicines to reduce the sex drive, which i ignored coz it may harm my sex life with my wife also. Only after reading on this site i,m relexed that not only me but most of the guys are having this issue. But one advantage out of this is you need not go for extramarital affairs. So dear soumya u can be little happy also coz even if any oppertunity comes in way, person having virtual sex will not opt for that. That is my tested & practiced judgement. So this a small clarification. i,m not advocating that others also should do it, but it is uncontrollable like any other habits. I want to know free & frank opinions from the male/females how to overcome this problem,or their experiences...