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Working Mother:going abroad
2007-03-09
Name: need advise



hello,

well guys i need some help.my hubby has got posted to US.i am on the family way so i was just wondering whether the life will be more comfortable there or is it better here in india.
it was always my dream to go to US..i dont know y, now finally when my hubby is getting posted for some time there then im having a baby soon.

i really want to know frm girls living in US about how should i manage there. i dont want to leave hubby.is life more comforatble there..i mean see in india these relatives and customs and other interferences eat my brains.atleast i think i will be in peace there with hubby and baby.i always wanted to be there.im working but as of now left for some time.please girls help me in making a good decision.hubby says come after delivery..right now i need care,he is going for some long project so will be busy.but i want to be with him only.please girls give some sensible advise.i like US very much
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2007-04-03
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Anonymous Name: X2
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D check out if his health care insurance will cover your pregnancy...because lots of times, an already existing pregnancy is not covered...in that case US hosital fees might be a lot...

If yes, then coming to US might be good..you can ask your mom (and dad) to come to you at delivery time to help you out...the facilities here are really good...and as Serena says, it will be good if your husband is involved from the beginning in taking care of the baby...that way he will be more understanding abt what you will be facing later on...and will help you out...

Take care...
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2007-03-14
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Anonymous Name: Sereena
Subject:  DONT WORRY ACCOMPANY HIM IN US



Hi there , I read your problem which is really a very serious situation for you to choose between the two.Well if you really ask me you had or still have liking for US and above all your hubby is going to be tehre so you must accompany him . Afterall you are his betterhalf and ou should where as India is concerned US i a more advance you and your hubby are planning for child' s future only ,let him know the responsiblities let him manage on his own in US starting from feeding bottle ,diaper to everything. Dont leave him alone in US since for a man nothing is beyond his wife and child.

Best of Luck for delivery as i alo have a 04 months baby boy YUVRAJ who miss me when iam in office .
May god bless uou all
Sereena
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