Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

thanks a lot friends!! its good to get so many replies to my mail...to know so many people who were concerned...
all the best to u, indian! believe me, it is much more frustrating to wait to try than trying itself. at least now u know u r trying for a baby and that u may conceive anytime.
i was thinking im going crazy...getting upset when anyone asks an obvious question bout the good news...but so many people feel the same as myself. and the funniest part is tat those so called 'near and dear ones' who keep asking have nothing to do with my preg or my baby. i mean, even if i have a baby, they would just come, have a sweet and go back to their houses....y are THEY so much worried bout MY baby??
wish u all the best for ur pregnancy, canada friend!! may u have a very healthy and happy baby!! keep us updated on the progress!!
and sonia, i completely understand ur situation. u know, the day i posted my original msg, was when i got to know bout my best friend's preg. and yes i am happy for her, very happy in fact! but i just feel where i went wrong to undergo so much of a trauma!! i even dont want my younger brother in law to get married as yet coz i want him to hold my baby before he holds his own! but i think all that is natural! we'll surely be excused to think that way...
i wish u all the best! u WILL have a healthy and happy baby very soon!!
sangeeta, please check my reply on the miscarriage board.
hi advika, nice name...u know, that's the name i had chosen for my baby girl before i miscarried...
please keep in touch. sorry to know bout ur miscarriage. i never saw this name on the miscarrige board...else we would have been friends much earlier..
i read in this board only bout some ovulation calculator which takes the temp of ur body in the morning and tells u if u r ovulating that day. maybe u can try that.
all the best to all of u and thanks a lot once again for replying.
love,
pari.

Advika replied. Hi Pari,

Taking Folic acid suppliment while Ur ttc is good. My doctor has prescribed me to take 5mg suppliment daily. Ask Ur Doctor regarding this.

Take care Advika replied. I agree with U. Relatives just ping U and make U more depressed. Try to neglect them.

I was never a member of the miscarriage board. I did not know abt this site then. I came to know about this site only recently 2 months back. Since then I'm a member of this board.

It was nice hearing from U.

Baby dust to us all. Hope we have good news soon.

Keep in touch.
sonia replied. hi Pari.......ur all feelings are absolutely right.this is nothing but just frustration that we r going thru. we dont wish ill to anybody...but just that in this kinda situation we suddenly become helpless...and start thinking all sort of things....even start feeling that we have done something wrong for which god is punishing us and all that u know. But i pray to god to give us serenity and help us through out, give us strenght to endure all these things which r beyound our understanding.With his strenght we will be able to accept situations where others like friends or younger relatives give good news and we just ....i have no words to say.

dear pari i too wish u all luck. and a beautiful healty baby soon. keep in touch . atleast here we can share our feelings which we cant most of the times with others.Infact even my husband is away frm me....he works in merchant navy.So its just me and myself going thru the pain and crying alone god only knows how many times.Infront of my parents and relatives i put a cheerful face. i dont want anybody to know of my sorrow.

maybe that the way life is. i hope this wait gets over soon for all of us

Priya replied. Dear Pari
Please do not be upset, things will turn out well for you. After micarriage i know some ppl who have concieved and have 2 beautiful girls.After trying again please take bedrest, Be happy there are alot of things you can be doing right now to change the world and make it a better place.Do some charity work it may make you feel better and keep your mind of these issues.