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Hi Friends,
Till Now i was very happy and very assured about
my husband that he loves me too much. He can never
ditch me. We have a love marriage. We were in same college and class also.
Now after 2 years of marriage and one son also
One of our friends 'Usha' came to our house for one day and 2 nights.
Actually this is our common friend. My husband told me that she is coming to our city and asked
her to come to our house to stay. When she came my husband was excited. What i saw during this period that they both used to sit alone talking to each other without and hesitation. Even my husband who used to sleep at 10 PM slept at 2 PM that night. next day they slept in same room at my bed when i was working. then i go to them when they were again talking and i gave hint to my husband that he was wrong then also he didnot understand. then i stopped talking to him now she has gone but i am very tensed and angree to my husband he has broken my belief of 7-8 years.
what should i do now SM replied. Dear Vini,

After reading your message I feel sorry for u that u r doubting your hubby of 7-8 years?

As U said that Usha is a common friend of u as well as your husband. Why do u look at the friendship as a different relationship? They did not hide anything, and they were talking in front of u everything. There is nothing wrong talking with each other after meeting almost two years. It is quite human nature. So please drop the anger and befriend with your hubby. Eraze from your mind all evil things and start afresh a new life. I am a female and I never doubt my hubby. Had he done anything behind u, may be your doubts are natural. He is innocent dear. Just ignore it and live life happily. niyathi replied. seriously even if i was in ur situation i would be as angry as u r right now, tell directly to ur hubby that u did not like the way he did when ur friend was here, and he has to behave like a married man, and not a college student the way u'll were years back. Tell ur hubby directly of wat u feel.