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Womens Issues:what do you think
2005-05-06
Name: mann



It's a long story but i'll keep it short
i'm not indian but Dutch but my wife is from Delhi. We got merried last year it was a arranged maridge.(hindu)
for a dutch guy this is not realy normal but
i had a very good feeling about it.
My in-laws are poor so i paid for everyting needed.
we had an very nice wedding the indian way big party lots of sari's gold and everyting it cost me all i had but i realy love my wife so i don't think obout that.
Everyone told me she is a good girl this and that
sweet caring and so.
her father (i knew him before all this) told me she was never been white a boy and she told me to.
Now at ouwer wedding night i found out she already had a boy friend before me.
i was shocked specialy becouse when we got engaged she was 17 years old.
she had a boy friend i can life with that
but why lie to me i did everything for her
to get together.I respected her very much
been honest helpt her famely everything you can think of. Now i don't know what i should think of her (i love her very much)Some times i realy
feel terrible becouse she lied to me and don't know if i can trust her.

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2005-05-10
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Anonymous Name: natpu
Subject:  hi



If she is just 17 years old then she would have just had some infactuation. Infactuation can happen right from childhood according to science. This is different from love or physical relationship.

If everyone keeps talking about their infactuations then it will run into pages. One can like many, but can't share their life with everyone they like. Marriage needs trust and love, which is superior than any kind of friednships or relationships.

Does she love you now? That is what is more important. If you suspect her, then that will spoil her trust and love for you.

You both love each other and lead each other in the right path. That is only a good married life.
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2005-05-06
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Anonymous Name: Vini
Subject:  Don't think too much



Look Mann. First you try to know the depth of the freindship you came to know about. Then you decide or think further. If she too loves you and you believe her then forget the past.
But first observe the suspicious things
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