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I have a very strange problem. When I do sex with my wife she feels good, but doesnt have any orgasm. I reach to orgasm and ejaculate before she gets any. What should I do to maintain erection and continue doing sex till the time she gets orgasm? If I do fast and deep strokes she feels good but i reach to orgasm much earlier.

I satisfy her by rubbing my fingers fast in between her clitoris flaps. She likes that much and reaches orgasm, but that also takes so much time that i can never imagine doing sex for so long.

Though she doesnt have any complains and we are both satisfied every night though different ways. I want that I should be able to satisfy her by doing sex so that once she orgasm i orgasm inside her just after her.

any suggestions? I have read the websites telling some squeeze etc method. I dont want those since they break the rythm in doing sex and both of us dont like that and that doesnt help much. I need practical solutions from peoples tried and tested methods.
thanks
shree replied. Danu,

Doing sex for longtime is up to you it’s depend on your mind and habit.

If you simply go with feeling of your pleasure and let the go ejaculate it will come sooner. You have to practice for it psychologically. We get feeling when you head towards ejaculate. Try to reset your mind don’t let you mind go for climax. Just do more foreplay without sex your 'thing' will have habit of long erection with out climax. \";Its mind game\";

Background of my question is
I used to think woman orgasm is rare, but it look like.

I think I give enough time before ejaculating to my wife b’coz 5 out of 2 times she stop me before my ejaculating, out of pain (its been one and half months we are married)
My question how did you know woman had orgasm or not.

Shree kashish replied. Try first with putting her in the mood. Licking, touching, sucking her breast and slowly move downwards. Instead of using your finger there suck her or lick her there because the fingers can hurt and take a little of the pleasure away because men tend not to know how tender the area is and it gets rubbed too hard. and wait stay down there until she is begging you to come in here. then she will organsm right when you do. If you have lost the erection then have her suck you just until you are hard. any longer than that she has lost the feeling. then quickly enter and move slow in her until she begs for more. also try moving your hips in a circle. Gives her a different kind of pleasure. Good luck good site replied. www dot askmen dot com / love / love _ tip / sextip3 dot html happy hopeful replied. Hi There,

women are much harder to orgasm then men. they need much more stimulation. what u need to do is find out what she likes... u said she likes if u use your fingers... and keep doing it until she comes.

have you tried using the fingers of one hand to go in and out while you use the other to rub her clit? maybe use your tongue. oral sex is very very pleasing for ladies... best of luck