My son seems to do everything that his friends tell him. He does not question them for even once. As a result of this he has started telling lies. How can I help him stand up against peer pressure? Please advise
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My son seems to do everything that his friends tell him. He does not question them for even once. As a result of this he has started telling lies. How can I help him stand up against peer pressure? Please advise
viren replied. hello karuna,
you should keep trust on your kid,and try to maintain your friendship with him, it will good for your mother and son relationship, dont shouted on him, if he was done any mistake.
girish replied. hello karuna,
every parents need to behave like friend of son or daughter, dont show strictness to them, and then they try to find out softness in out of home and that softness they got in friend circle.
yogesh replied. hello karuna,
behave like friend with your kid, try to listen you son point of view, in any situation try to take his opinion and consider his opinion also, give him comfortness in your family discussion.
bhawesh replied. hello karuna,
parents need to be with the kid, and need time of parents, like school function, and school sports day, also in activities like sports day, so you should find out new way to be with him.
harish replied. hello karuna,
you have to give time to your son, and try to spend more and more time with him, your kid need your presence and your attention so you should give priority to him.
bina replied. hello karuna,
dont take tension and dont get panic in this situation, you have give more and more time to your kid, when your kid need time and presence of you that time you should present for him.
divya replied. hello karuna,
dont be panic in this situation, most of the parents going through this situation it doesn't mean there is no solution for your problem, so try to make your self strong to handle this situation.
kiran replied. hello karuna,
you have to give more and more time to your kid, when your kid need time and presence of you that time you should present for him, and try to more time with your kids, its good for your family.
riya replied. hello karuna,
acceptance into a friend circle is the main reason of being conformed in friend pressure, try to make friend of your child also guide in wrong and right situations, so its good for your family values.
dipti replied. hello karuna,
parents need to be with the kid at he need time of parents, in school function, school sports day, also in activity, kids expect the presence of parents, and if you fail there, they find out the other way.
yamuna replied. hello karuna,
there is only solution of friendship, try to listen his point of views, in situation, try to take his opinion and consider his opinion also, give him comfortless in your family discussion.
rakshita replied. hello karuna,
be friendly with your son, try to make friendship with him, as much as time spend with him, try to find out his expectations from parents, also appreciate him in small small things, also listen him what he want to say to you.
lavina replied. hello karuna,
dont be harsh towards your son, he is your child do not resort to hitting activity, and dont shouting on him otherwise the atmosphere get disturb between you parents and son.
sanchita replied. hello karuna,
dont get panic in this situation, talk with his some friends, and try to talk in school also, and indirectly tell him to make new friends, and tell him that our opinion is also important in life.
kavya replied. hello karuna
you try to make yourself strong in this case and make your son also strong, you have to handle your son very patiencely, no need of angryness show him, its like useless thing.
raje replied. hello karuna.
you try to make strong bonding with him, and then see the changes between him, may be he also start listening your things, and peer about his parents too, so give him some time from your time.
alok replied. hello karuna,
don be so much panic, its your son nature, or its really because of friend peer, but he is not small kid, so he also know the things, by his mind, so its good for him in future.
guru replied. hello karuna,
you bothe parents, make strong bonding with him like start doing friend ship with him give him friend like treatment and also spend lots of time with your child then you can see the changes in him.
rohini replied. hello karuna,
every parents need to behave like friend of son or daughter, dont show strictness to them, and then they try to find out softness in out of door, and that softness they get from friend.
jyouti replied. hello karuna,
i read your post and really feel so scared, because my son is also doing same thing he is also try to do everything whatever his friend do, so i m so much confuse for his change behaviour.
2017-02-28
#21
Name: viren Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you should keep trust on your kid,and try to maintain your friendship with him, it will good for your mother and son relationship, dont shouted on him, if he was done any mistake.
2017-02-28
#22
Name: girish Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
every parents need to behave like friend of son or daughter, dont show strictness to them, and then they try to find out softness in out of home and that softness they got in friend circle.
2017-02-28
#23
Name: yogesh Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
behave like friend with your kid, try to listen you son point of view, in any situation try to take his opinion and consider his opinion also, give him comfortness in your family discussion.
2017-02-28
#24
Name: bhawesh Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
parents need to be with the kid, and need time of parents, like school function, and school sports day, also in activities like sports day, so you should find out new way to be with him.
2017-02-28
#25
Name: harish Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you have to give time to your son, and try to spend more and more time with him, your kid need your presence and your attention so you should give priority to him.
2017-02-28
#26
Name: bina Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont take tension and dont get panic in this situation, you have give more and more time to your kid, when your kid need time and presence of you that time you should present for him.
2017-02-16
#27
Name: divya Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont be panic in this situation, most of the parents going through this situation it doesn't mean there is no solution for your problem, so try to make your self strong to handle this situation.
2017-02-16
#28
Name: kiran Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you have to give more and more time to your kid, when your kid need time and presence of you that time you should present for him, and try to more time with your kids, its good for your family.
2017-02-16
#29
Name: riya Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
acceptance into a friend circle is the main reason of being conformed in friend pressure, try to make friend of your child also guide in wrong and right situations, so its good for your family values.
2017-02-16
#30
Name: dipti Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
parents need to be with the kid at he need time of parents, in school function, school sports day, also in activity, kids expect the presence of parents, and if you fail there, they find out the other way.
2017-02-16
#31
Name: yamuna Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
there is only solution of friendship, try to listen his point of views, in situation, try to take his opinion and consider his opinion also, give him comfortless in your family discussion.
2017-02-16
#32
Name: rakshita Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
be friendly with your son, try to make friendship with him, as much as time spend with him, try to find out his expectations from parents, also appreciate him in small small things, also listen him what he want to say to you.
2017-02-16
#33
Name: lavina Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont be harsh towards your son, he is your child do not resort to hitting activity, and dont shouting on him otherwise the atmosphere get disturb between you parents and son.
2017-02-16
#34
Name: sanchita Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont get panic in this situation, talk with his some friends, and try to talk in school also, and indirectly tell him to make new friends, and tell him that our opinion is also important in life.
2017-02-16
#35
Name: kavya Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna
you try to make yourself strong in this case and make your son also strong, you have to handle your son very patiencely, no need of angryness show him, its like useless thing.
2017-02-16
#36
Name: raje Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna.
you try to make strong bonding with him, and then see the changes between him, may be he also start listening your things, and peer about his parents too, so give him some time from your time.
2017-02-16
#37
Name: alok Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
don be so much panic, its your son nature, or its really because of friend peer, but he is not small kid, so he also know the things, by his mind, so its good for him in future.
2017-02-16
#38
Name: guru Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you bothe parents, make strong bonding with him like start doing friend ship with him give him friend like treatment and also spend lots of time with your child then you can see the changes in him.
2017-02-16
#39
Name: rohini Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
every parents need to behave like friend of son or daughter, dont show strictness to them, and then they try to find out softness in out of door, and that softness they get from friend.
2017-02-16
#40
Name: jyouti Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
i read your post and really feel so scared, because my son is also doing same thing he is also try to do everything whatever his friend do, so i m so much confuse for his change behaviour.
hello karuna,
its not normal thing, you should take some serious action on that, now what is his age, you didnt mention here, but dont put pressure on him, take it in very nice way.... - aanadi [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
if your son is enough matuared then you cant put pressure on him, or cant scold on him, because its useless things this time, better you try to keep more and more connectivity with him.... - dhruti [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
just handle this problem very patiencely and calmly , you should try to give him comfortable space at home only, and spend good and free time with him, make him talkative.... - archita [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you should make yourself strong and there is no need to make issue of this things, its small period of peer from friend after certain time period he also know what he was done.... - neha [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont get angry on him, and dont start give lecture to him, give him some time, and then see some changes in him, if changes occur in his nature, then you are on right track.... - kaushlya [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
first you are sure that your son used to heard friend thing, and behave in same way, first you should check this then you can try to find out solution on that, so you should check once.... - varsha [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont put any extra pressure on your son, you should boost him in new advance things which is related to activity and related to study, if he wish to do any activity take admission to him.... - aanchal [View Message]