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Trying since long:Pls advice
2004-10-15
Name: Shweta



Hi

I had my periods on Sept 23rd, I have got all necessary info about BBT, Mucus reading, OPK too.
I started using OPK kit from 6th , but till today it gives -ve. Does that mean I have not ovulated. My temp now are 95.3 but was high for 95.5 on 10th, but we did not have sex on that day, since OPK gave -ve results...???

All this means to me that I have not ovulated yet?? Is that true or I missed my most fertile days???

I m very depressed, since we are trying from last 4mths, nthg is working at all.. I just cant make out when I ovulate????

My periods are irregular from 32- 37 days... is that normal??? will i ever get pregnant???
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2004-10-16
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Anonymous Name: Shweta
Subject:  Thanks



hi

U know what I get a little confused with mucus study... cant understand them. But day before y'day I felt egg white Mucus. that was my 22nd day of cyle... ???

Surprising!!! we had intercourse on that day onwards now....

Hoping for the best
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2004-10-15
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Anonymous Name: NP
Subject:  Hello Shweta



Hello Shweta,
When did you took your OPK. I would recommed you to test at 2:00 p.m or much closer to that. Anytime between 12:00 p.m to 8:00 p.m is absolute fine. first morning urine, i would not recommend. The reason is this is that most women experience a surge in the morning, but it can take 4 hours for it to show up in your urine. And make sure to test at about the same time every day. OPK test look for LH(luteinizing hormore)and most probably women will ovulate 12-48 hours after the LH surge is deceted, if you test in afternoon it should probably come down to 24-48 hours. Once your LH is detected it's best to have intercourse the day of LH surge and the two days after, also consider one more day in case you ovulate late. But most probably it would be best to have intercourse the day before LH surge, but it's hard in your case, becuase you don't have regular periods. If you don't know when you might ovulate, having sex every other day from cycle day 10 through a positive OPK.
I hope this helps. I know i might probably bein too hard language or some unheard words, but i am sure you will be happy after your LH is detected & have intercourse on the very same day & two days after. And as Asha said, don't stress too much.
Best of luck
Take Care.
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2004-10-16
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Anonymous Name: Shweta
Subject:  RE: THanks



HI

Thank you so much for the reply, but you know what I read all this on the net. i was aware that first mrg urine is not good. So i check OPK at around 4 pm and try and keep the same time always.. only 1-2 hrs here & there...!!!

But still my OPK shows -ve, i have spent $$$ on this kit, i started using the first kit on 4th and now using the second kit....

WE have started having intercourse from last few days... thinking not to wait for this OPK ....

I hope I get pregnant.... :(

Thanks anyways...

Luv
Shweta
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2004-10-15
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Anonymous Name: white
Subject:  wait for the fertile days



Hi Swetha,

I also had same problem - irregular periods, takes 30 to 45 days. You can observe the musus, it should be transparent and sticky. Do your best on the good musus days. If you want to improve your musus to swim the sperm well, avoid eating sweets and sugers. If you can... avaid dairy products milk and yogurt. Eat more protine and have Soya milk. I did this and i got succeeded. Good luck.
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2004-10-15
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Anonymous Name: asha
Subject:  wait



dear shweta,
in my opinion u should wait untill ur opk shows +ve.u can bed in the two days of +ve result.
dont be stressed sometimes it causes ovulation to occur late.
good luck.
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