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2005-07-03
Name: rajesh ratnam



Dear All,

My Wife died last month,i have a 7 year old daughter,iam 29 yrs old.I couldn't visualize my future without my wife.My sister who is maarried for about 8yrs does not have children.Now iam confused what to do.Dear friends please advice.
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2007-10-26
#1
Anonymous Name: riya
Subject:  hi



hi rajesh sorry to hear abt your wife
r u thinking to leave your chils with ur sister
plzzzzz never dothis mistake it would be fatal for your child devlopement plz doonto do so
i undertand ur only 29 and u also need companion for ur rest life but u have to wait first let ur accept all this that her mom is no more it very difficult phase for ur child never do anything which emotionally good for ur child whtever decsion u make make it from point of view of ur child
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2007-05-19
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Anonymous Name: sree
Subject:  need moral support.......



Hi rajesh,
Sorry for your loss,even i am passing through the same phase,lost my beloved husband last month in US for brain tumor,everything was finished in a day,now we me and my 4yr old boy left without him,not able to forget or recover ,need lot of support and returned back to hyd after staying in US for almost 8yrs.
Please keep in touch and give me moral support to bring up my kid.

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2007-05-08
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Anonymous Name: gopal
Subject:  sorry for your loss



sorry to hear about your wife' s death. I can understand your situation as I am going through the same. I too am a widower with a 3 yr old lovely daughter and am clueless. I am from hyderabad. I have also discussed about brining up my child with many people and I agree with VJ' s comments.

take care
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2005-07-26
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Anonymous Name: vj
Subject:  sorry for your loss



Dear Rajesh,
sorry to hear about your wife's death. Why not try some therapy/counseling for yourself and your kid? I am confused about your q. Why did you mention your sis here? are you thinking of leaving your daughter to your sis? I beg you to not do that. Your child will become very insecure about any relationship. The most trustworthy people in her life will not be there for her anymore. Ofcourse, your sis can play the part of the female role model or caretaker in your girl's life. Just think about it. Time is the best healer and May God be with you always
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2005-07-28
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Anonymous Name: Rajesh
Subject:  Tnx



Dear VJ,

Tnx for the reply even iam planning to do the same.
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