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Hi,

I am very depressed. My problem is I have been married since 10 years. My husband is ok with me. But he is addicted to the stock market. We lost everything. We left with nearly $70,000 credit card debt. I am begging him to look for a job but he is not listening. We just have $4000 and he wants to invest that money and he is saying he can make wonders with that. I am becoming mad and always I think about committing suicide. He is saying he is applyting but not getting any calls. i asked him to register in any agnecy so that they can show him some help desk jobs, but he is saying he can't do such jobs as he can earn that money with the 4000 we have now invested in market. I am also trying for full time job. Currently I am working part time. Please give me your valuable advice. Please kindly give me some words so that I can live atleast peacefully by remembering those words. LA replied. Well it sounds to me like your husband has an addiction, a gambling addiction. Do you have family around you for moral support? You need that support beforehand and then you need to confront his behavior with ultimatums. Try looking for support groups in your area, they know what you're going through and can help you find ways to help yourself and your husband out of this now unhealthy habit.

I wish you the best of luck - don't give up. man replied. every prob. starts when you think girlishly try to be a man to handle situations it means do things right way
be determined to teach your husband ,you know you are right so make him to understand by applying any means
be tricky look at his weaknesses try to hit there so you can break him emotionally and divert his mind from what he is doing .you can do anything and please post again if you need more help i am always there
ok all the best creole replied. hi very depressed,
all i can says is that for u to be patient and strong...
god be with u...