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Hi friends...
i m in a tricky situation.. There was this guy who was in love with me... he asked me out few times and eventually we both fell in love... now i love him truly as much as he used to love me...
we have had this relationship since past few years... In begining this guys dad didnt have any problem with him having any relationship with me... but later on things started changing.. he started opposing us in all possible manners.. at first it was miserable because we didnt kno the reason why he was opposing us...
Recently i came to kno that he(dad) found out many \";wrong things\"; about our relationship..
and thats the reason why he doesnt want anything to do with both of us remaining together.. he's even told that he wud rather let his son remain bachelor whole life than let him be with me...
I agree there were few things which he didnt like about our relationship... but they werent so big that we have to face this punishment of not being with each other
My guy tells me that he cant go against his father.. but he loves me very much too...
and both of us cant see a life ahead without each other... we cant go againsht our parents either...
I m totally broken..
Please help friend replied. dear friend, when his father is against it, how can u you go on with it? parents slog so much to bring up their kids. you cant hurt them. its not fair. you are saying that you both cant live without eachother. yes initially it will be difficult but you can get over it soon. its better you sacrifice your love than hurting the parents. choose a different life for u. make up your mind and go on with your life. you will start feeling peaceful after that because it would not have caused destruction in any family.did u read the newspapers , in tamilnadu, the boy's parents committed suicide because of threat from the girl's side. please dont feel bad that iam writing to u all this. if your love is going to end up in marriage without any problems or with minimum problems, its ok. but with so much of problems, you, the
guy and the guy's parents, all of u r in distress.life is short. learn to make it pleasant. try to achieve something in life. fix a goal for yourself. get married. but just dont jump into some marriage because you want to forget the past. choose a good boy and a good family after many enquiries through your parents and then get married and lead a peaceful life. believe me, you will get back your happiness. Snow Friend replied. dear distressed soul

if a guy loves u dearly he will stand by you no matter what.
hope you solve your problem soon. And remember everything happens for the best.
take care and wish you all the very best in life