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Why do children fight in school? How to help children to be patient and avoid fighting? How can parents find out the reasons behind the fights between children at school? shobhna replied. hi editor,
in children case they dont want any issue to fight with each other, and in school the problem is related small small things, school fight not serious, so u should not worried about fights. Ashna replied. Most of the fights in school are not serious and don't last for too long so parents and students should not be worried but yes there are some fights caused on major issues that can be harmful for the students. NN replied. You should explain it to your kid that fighting with someone is not the correct option. Usually fights happen because of arguments between them or because of something someone told them. So as parents you have to teach them about it. Uma replied. Usually boys have a habit of fighting even for fun but that fun sometimes urns into a serious fight. 90% of the fights between them take place like this only. But as parent and teachers you should not worry as they become friends in 5 mins. NN replied. Usually the students fighting in the school are boys. We all know that boys are very short tempered and they get aggressive very fast. The only way to stop them is avoid creation of situations that might lead to all this. ketki replied. hi editor,
first of all in children there is no reason for them fighting in friends, they are kids and they play game in the sense of fighting, so just try to watch them properly. bhanu replied. hi editor,
we cant read whats going on in children mind, because of age they are very unstable and they want each and every thing as per them . so there is many small small reasons to fighting in between kids. kaira replied. Hello Editor,
You want to know about the fight of the children so there will be many reasons that children will fight and you need to solve the issues with some solutions and it will put to an end so that there will not be any problem for parents. ritesh hari replied. When my children fight, I find it nightmarish! Mine are teenagers and at times it does get out of hand and they do create a raucous :( It is true what Vishesh says. Sometimes, your temper gets the better of you. This article made for a very good read. Good tips.
Megha replied. Hi Every body,
We can not estimate children mentality because at this age they would like to play and fulfill their desires and every thing will impact on them what ever parents do in front of them.So they must know the differences also. Pari replied. Hi every one,
Because they are children they would do such activities only.We need to understand why do they fight and for what purpose also.But we should make them show difference between good and bad also.
Megha replied. Hello Editor,
Children will fight because they are children. They would fight because for their things and just for simply only. we need to make them understand good and bad.We must make them to learn to be good to others and must to do good also. Linda replied. fighting in school has become quite common amongst kids. They are in the process of peer group development and hence, they dont realise what is right or wrong. They become aggressive at times if things arent fulfilled. Its better to handle them patiently. They might fight and compare themselves with other kids vishesh shrivastava replied. Good read. However, sometimes it is hard to be patient and one does lose one's temper. Especially with stress from work and kids being over indulgent, I find it hard to control my temper. The startegies outlined here are quite good. Should try to practise them. priya mehra replied. Excellent article. Would certainly benefit many parents worried about children fighting at home and in school as well. Made for a good read.