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Archie as you know this time too doctor gave me Gonal F injections and after properly studying the follicles did my artificial insemination on the 15th day which was on 5th sept.On 15 Sept. that is my 25th day i got sever pain below the abdomen on the left side. I was in office and was even unable to sit properly. During lunch break just had one banana and tried to lie down(luckily i found one vacant room and locked it lied down there. Pain subsided. I had tea in the evening and just went to the toilet and vommitted. I was happy that its the first sign maybe. I took rest on Thursday from afternoon since its 1/2 day here and complete rest on Friday.My Hubby cooked for me on Thursday though he does not know. I was sure this is my luckly cycle. Friday evening there came little blood. I was really in tears. Now today saturday morning I am got my periods. There is bleeding but still i am hoping against hope that it may stop and I am actually pregnant which i doubt now. I am feeling really helpless. Today is Ganpati GOD's Day. Hope GOD only will Bless us now.Doctor told me that if this cycle it does not happen then when i go to India in November i should go for IVF. But i know its not easy since my hubby may get only 1 month leave and even me maybe 45 days only. and moreover the costs and being in Mumbai travelling itself will take up full day i don't know how i would be able to do it. I am so scared. Archie what should i do. I am really feeling terrible. My Hubby, Parents ,Sisters tell me that not to take tension and everything would be fine.But u know my age and Doctor tells that in India after 40 hospitals will not even entertain such cases.what should i do . sorry to trouble u but please help me. archie replied. Dear Anamika,
I did mention to you before, sway your fears and tension, this is the only key to hit success.
I do notice you have a whole lot of pressure of your own on pregnancy part. I do understand your despair but if you want some help then forget about ttc and get on normal life. This way you will get God an opportunity to bless you.

Not only cycle is hormonal but whole process of pregnancy, conceiving is hormonal too. You being tensed is never going to let your body have balanced hormone.

I want you to take positive attutide towards life and age and ttc process. If you think I make sense then extrude a little of trust and go ahead with normal life, you will be blessed.

IVF is better in India. You have plenty of time, 1 month is OK if you already work on Dr. choice now it self.


I wish I could offer you better advise. I am deeply sorry for your situation.

Archie