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Hi Archie sorry to infrom u tat i got my periods yesterday.... I'm reallyy upset for this and how this can happend u know archie we had intercourse from CD9-CD12, we didn't have on CD 13 but had on CD14-CD-19 and after tat we never had for a week and just last week we had for some 3 days tats all. Wats happening with me, this is making to get really very much upset i'm not able to concentrate on my work nor my family. And i stay in India, i'm frm Bangalore.

Archie now can u tell me whn shld i start to have intercourse its not necesaary tat i shld have all the 30 days rt, cox my hubby want have he wants a gab of 2 day atleast, wat do i do tell me whn is the day i can have contineously ????? I want baby very badly archie pllsss help me, i feel bad whn all my frds who got married in the same month r preg, but not me.. Wat do u think???? wat shld i do ??????

Pls suggest me ARCHIEEE .........

I will get back to on monday since i have off on sat & sun

Till thn bye & take care

Luv
Sandya
sangeeta replied. Dear Sandhya,
I know how it feels when ur expecting and u don`t get it. But don`t worry soon u will be pregnant u need to be patient don`t keep on thinking about it it will only give stress and tension.
I myself had gone thru this so i can understand ur position but thinking about it dosen`t help instead it spoils everything so relax u will soon be blessed with a baby soon don`t take tension
Take care
sangeeta New to site replied. Sorry to hear, when I was trying it took me at least 2 years, I was just like to always worried and everytime we had intercourse I would be thinking about it instead of enjoying it, so I confronted my friend and she said I need to relax and enjoy and not even think about it at all. Also have try getting a fertile kit, this kit tells u when your peak days are and those are the days u do it, that's what i did and I was blessed with a baby boy..So relax and try not to think about it. Good luck keep me informed.
Archie replied. Dear Sandhya,
Sorry to hear appearance of your period.

It's not needed that you have to have intercourse each day. Once a two days is perfectly fine.

If cycles are regular and range in 28-29 days then start intercourse on CD11 till CD15 the max is on CD16. NO intercourse thereafter until you know about pregnancy or experience period.

Do not get upset, this stress is not going to help you. Unless you start enjoying intercourse without thinking about baby you will be stressed. This is not good for your ttc process.

Take care
Archie