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Body and Fitness:help me plz sandhya or any1....i m in big trouble.
2007-08-20
Name: samreen



hi m merried girl.my age is 22 and height id 5,6 bt i m really in troble.i got merried a few months ago..i m healthy by nature.bt now a days i m getting more weight n looking horible as my husband and every1 make fun of me.i dont knw wat to do.no gym or doctor is required here tht i can take suggestion.............i NEED UR PEOPLES HELP.PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME.
i want to look slim ..my weight is 93 kg...its horrible.isnt it?
and i m nt concieving pregrancy....everything is going difficult for me i need u poeple help in my diet routine....tht i can weight lose fast..i cnt enjoy my life....plz plz plz help me....and tell me everything in details...........
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2007-08-22
#1
Anonymous Name: sandya
Subject:  weight



Samreen,
First of all stop worrying about your weight so much. I know it is easier said than done, but please try. Second you need to take some action against your weight gain rather than worry about it so much. So, let’s see what we can do about that:

1. You said you were recently married. If you are on the BCP(birth control pill) then you can expect to see some weight gain. Talk to you doctor about the side effect(meaning weight gain due to BCP.

2. You could also have a underlying thyroid problem due to which you are seeing your weight shoot up so much. Make sure you don’t have any and this can be done by consulting with a doctor.

3. What was your weight before marriage? I am sure in a few months time it hasn’t shot from somewhere in early 60’s to now 94. So, please let us know what you were originally before marriage.

4. We also need to know what your eating habits are to suggest any changes in them. So, do honestly list them all so we can suggest any changes.

5. Also please talk about weight issues in your family before marriage. Like your parents, siblings etc… dealing with any weight issues. How have you been otherwise since your childhood. On the lighter side or the heavier side? What kind of lifestyle (sedentary or active) before marriage? Etc..

6. If anything else comes to your mind that might help shed some light on your situation then do let us know.

7. All said and done, you do need a primary care physician that you can go and see if you suffer from any minor/major ailment. So, make sure that you have one. We on this board can only suggest and NOT PRESCRIBE. So, please do remember this fact.

Looking forward to help in any way i can.
Sandya
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2007-08-23
#2
Anonymous Name: samreen
Subject:  ok ill tel u abt myself



1....i have use these pills abt 9 months and now i have leave tht,n trying to concieveing the pregrancy.

2....i have no thyroid prb bt i have bad habit of eating prb.i tried a lot bt i couldnt leave it.coz by nature i m depressed girl.

3 SHOULD I TELL U ALL OF MY STORY?????????
OK LET ME TELLL U.
I M FROM A GOOD N WELL KNOWN FAIMLY.i have 2 brothers n m only one.when i was young frm my childhoood everybody just love me..i was skinny in my childhood and cute child...bt my COUSIN tht also my agefallow bt jelous of me.coz i have more importance in my faimly(v was living in joint faimly saytem)
I WAS SHY NATURALY AND WEAK GIRL..SO SHE ALWAYS PLAY GAME WID ME.she was confident so everywhere she makes fun of me n always tried to fail me...not in my fornt,in my absence she do this.
so i was so alone tht i have no best firend.
i become kind of strange nature..even i got the college bt i have no confidence,,no best firend,,i always cry on small things.my parents love me so much....bt i was so depressed tht i amke the food my friend.i EAT AND ONLY EAT THE JUNK FOODS TO KEEP MYSELF HAPPY..thatsy gain so much weight tht i got the harmoons imbalance prob.....doctors always asked me to lose the weight so tht i can handel this prb...bt everything become more worst for me....my cousin make fun of me weight..as every1 starts to like her....as she was slim n smart...i become more frustrated.
i start to use sleeping pills.
bt time is changed FROM 1 YEAR AGO AFTER SO MANY YEARS.
AS I GOT MERRIED.MY HUSBAND REALLY LOVE ME.M HAPPY BT STILL ALMOST SOME1 SAY ABT MY WEIGHT.
THEN I BECOME FRUSTRATED.
I WANT THE SOLUTION OF THIS PROBLEM.
i have share my story wid u tht u can help me.
now one habbit is still i have..thati always take myself at LOW stage.i m not happy wid myself...
i always lost my estamina in anything..
i CNAT DO ANYTHING.I M HELPLESS.ITS THE MANY YEARS PRB.
NOW I M TRYING TO CONCIEVING BT I M AFFRAID AS I WOULD GET MORE N MORE WEIGHT..WHAT WILL I DO.
CAN I NEVER BE HAPPY WID MYSELF???
CAN I NEVER WEAR WAT I WANT?
WHEN I GET MY CONFIDENCE??????
MY PROB IS THT I CANT STOP MY SELF FROM EATING JUNK,SWEETS,AND TOOM MUCH EATING.THT I USED TO JST GIVE COMFORT TO MY BODY.........
I HAVE SO MUCH ANGER.


I CANT DO TO THE DOCTOR THATSY I CAME TO THIS BOARED THT MAY U PEOPLE CAN HELP ME..I REALLY NED IT.................
TO CONTORL MY HABBIT IF EATING,,
I USED TO HAVE WEIGHT 879,80 KG NORMALLY BT ITS 93,94 NOW.GETTING MORE N MORE..I ONLY CAN DIET FOR ONE DAY ANTHER DAY I BECOME DISHEART..SO

SANDHYA HELP ME
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2007-08-21
#3
Anonymous Name: fat mom
Subject:  u can do it



Get your check up done if you have any health issues and consult a doc or someone to know what you can do to lose weight, according to your health test results.
Start working out right away, start with little bit. Do it in morning ... join a gym .. whatever.
And check your diet.

Let us know what doc says. I dont think I can suggest exercises or anything unless the doc says ok. If you think everything is normal and no need to check with doc, then see if u can join a gym.

Are you in india? Watch biggest loser jeetega!

Dont get disheartened. Keep in touch and we will keep motivating each other. I will share tips from what I am doing.
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