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Name: hi

hi,
i got married 4 months back and i was very innocent during the early days after my marriage.according to me i have do 2 biggest blunders.
First one is that in our custom after marriage the newly married husband and wife have to go to the girls parents house and stay for 1 day or so, my IL's are very orthodox and according to them event they had to come along with us after our marriage to my parents place, but since my parents are not at all orthodox they did not know this that my IL's should also be invited but my mom had told my MIL that we dont know any formality so if they have any they should let them know, but at that time my MIL did not say anything and so my parents invited my hubby to come along with me to my parents place after marriage, then my MIL told her loving son that my parents have not invited them, and then my hubby told me that i should call and ask my parents to invite them, I like a fool called up my parents and told them to invite them, i feel i did a big mistake asking my parents, to do that later my ILS did not come along with us since both were not well and only we 2 went to my parents place, so on our journey to my parents place my hubby told me that we would not stay since my parents did not invite his parents properly, and so even i tried to tell him but he did not listen, and i told him that i want to stay at any cost,

later once we reached my parents place i told my mom about our fight in the journey and mom was sad and she told dad even and then both dad and mom started convencing my hubby about whatever happened and i felt very bad that my parents were convencing him because i told

i feel i made my parents to act as my hubby's slave which i should not have done, can any one suggest me what i should i done so that i should not repeat the same mistake again

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