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plz help me,
i m recently married and i m eqaully educated as my hubby, the main thing which dont like in my hubby is whenever we discuss/argue about something and if my hubby does not like what i say. i.e the point which i say he hits me and i told him several times that i dont like it, but still he is not stopping it. and i want to stop it somehow what shall i do. and till now what ever we argued is nothing personnel i.e not related to his parents nor his relatives, just a general thing, then what he might do if i argue about his parents thinking that itself makes me scared.
plz give me suggestions LA replied. First of all, you need to sit down and talk to him while he is being rational. Discuss what the 2 of you can do to avoid this behavior.

If he can't control his anger, he needs help. If you both argue and hit one another, you both need to stop doing what is making the other angry. Talk about things rationally and if you both feel things are getting out of hand - both of you need to walk away until you can talk rationally about things - even if that takes days.

If he beats you because he thinks you shouldn't have an opinion as a woman and he thinks less of you - I don't think he will ever change his behavior and will continue to beat you if he doesn't change this outlook about you or women in general

Try marriage counseling.

Good Luck flower replied. be firm and tell him that u won't tolerate it the next time he does it. and if he repeates it, then don't talk with him till he apologizes to u.
since u r recently married, this is the right time to say it. else later on he might say that 'u didn't say anything all these yrs'.
sit down calmly one day and have a talk with him. or even then if he does not listen just coolly ask him will he accept it if u do the same thing to him.