Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hello Archie and All,

Hope u are doing fine.
Well Archie, I hope u remember me.You know what my periods went irregular past 7 months and are ranging from 30 to 40 days.This time we were hoping for baby but period came on 40th day.Can u believe its going to be so long?And yesterday it was very frustrating for us to have the bad news.Well this time on 38th day I did find 1 drop of blood coming out and on 39th day I found couple of blood drops.So we thought its Spotting that is early symptom of pregnancy.But yesterday my periods came as usual and you know what I had two flesh (Blood clots) (smaller ones) coming out during the periods.The same had happened before 3 months about the flesh clots.

What do you thing why is this happening?And I do show all pregnancy symptoms before my period.Is this a miscarriage? Or ecostopic pregnancy? Or what? Its very frustrating for us.We want baby badly.pl suggest what to do?

Thanks,
Dips.
Dips replied. Dear Archie,

Thanks once again for the kind help.Well as I told you in the very first message in this community,my hubby's Sperm count was found low.It was 20.But I do trust that his count was low coz he had Drinks 1 day before test and we had intercourse on that day only.So i didnt trust that much on that result.But the Gyno.had given the FERTYL-M tablets to him for a period of 3 months.He did take that course but we didnt succeed.The course was till April-04.

After that he stopped those tablets and we decided to try naturally.And didnt go to see doc.since that.We came to know that SPEMAN tablets dont have any side effects so he took those for some days.Im not sure if he can continue the same.

He was a bit fat,but now controlled his intake of food and taking daily exercises.But the fact saying \";low count\"; in the report has made him totally nervous and he is considering himself responsible for the infertility.

Well now he is OK.We will try n use the OPK or Digital thermometer and obey the rules stated by you in u'r prior replies.Hope for the best.

This time my period came on 40th day and lasted for 1 day only,so very difficult to say whats the fertile period.If I use the thermometer,can i post you the daily temp?

Thanks a lot once again for the kind help.You are very sweet.

Luv,
Dips. Archie replied. Dear Dips,
Without knowing any data of hpt, I would not say a word on miscarriage.

You surely do not have any symptoms of Ectopic pregnancy. Even in your wild dreams don't think about this possibility.

Most importantly live happy and healthy not under stress.

Archie Archie replied. Dear Dips,
I do remember you.

I do not know how you are ttc, meaning you follow BBT, CM or OPK.

Without that it's difficult to make suggestion. But the best in your case is combination of BBT and OPK. This is must as your cycles are somewhat erratic.

Hence forth, if you choose to combine BBT and OPK, avoid intercourse until you reach to your fertile days.

Also abstain from intercourse two days after ovulation until you confirm or rule out pregnancy possibility.

About pregnancy signs, they are not different from PMS. The progestrone takes over after ovulation and therefore pregnancy symptoms.

I don't think spotting is a strong sing of pregnancy. Spotting is OK in pregnancy but not that spotting means pregnancy. Spotting spaced 5-7 days from ovulation and lasting for less than a day is a sign of pregnancy. Not the spotting around period.

Hope the comments will make some help.
Archie