Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi hopetobmom,
Just relax. It has been just 3 months since u started ttc. Please don't worry. If u r following archie's reply, she would've mentioned couple of times that there r only 20%chance for healthy couples each month to get pregnant. I know it is easy said than done, but u've got to stay calm and keep praying. Just have fun while u have ur intercourse. We tried from jul-03. We did all necessary tests after our 10th month. After that we decided to give a break. That same month I got pregnant. I really didn't think about getting pregnant after my ovulation. I was so busy, that I didn'thave time to think about it. We had lots of guests this month. I didn't even use ovulation predictor orBBT this month. I guess for some it works for some people like me who is always stressed out, it didn't work that much. So I stopped using all those things. As Archie suggested we did not have sex for the first 9 days after my periods. We did started having sex from the 12th day i suppose and that too every other day. Since I can feel my ovulation, (i have ovulation pain in my lower abdomen), we had sex on that day. Thats it. I didn't do anything special this month. Archie used to tell everyone to relax. If u stress yourself out, ur hamone will play against u. I strongly support that statement since I have gone through a lot because of stress. Due to that my periods was delayed. So please try to stay calm and keep praying GOD. Thats it.
Regarding symptoms, I didn't have any of them. I just had period -like cramp on and off and my breasts were hurting very badly, esp when I turned from one side to another in my bed. Other than that there was nothing. I tested on my 36th day and found out pregnant.
Try to relax yourself and take a test, if you already missed your periods. Good luck and lemme know. hopetobemom replied. Dear wannabparents,Archie
Thanks so much for your reply. I really really dp appreciate it but I am going through just so much turmoil in my mind. Last night after 39 days my period came. Just simply sucks.....I cried my heart out, got mad at my hubby for no fault of his, RSVPed NO to a baby shower just going nuts here. I am 26 years old 27 in 3 mths and I know I am still very young and only been rtying for 3 mths then why am I loosing hope so soon. Why do I keep feeling that this will never happen.....I have been healthy all my life and had a very smooth life but this aspect of my life seems so helpless. Sorry If I am bringing you all down. You all are so good in answerng Qs and support. My hubby is so supportive and I am really gonna try & relax this time....hopefully
Archie
I still don't understand, if my LH surge was detected on CD15 and CD16 why did I have my period on CD39. Also my BBT did not go up with a good spike until CD 25 or so. Is it possible to have a LH surge and then a delayed Ovulation. I was so depressed that I called in sick at work today.....I really need to handle this better
Thanks for listening