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hi,

I am working in a software concern and have 10 months old boy.My MIL is takinig care of the kid.I dont have any problem with my MIL and FIL.
My problem is that always i feel guilty that i am not taking care of my son.I am afraid that my son will not love me when he grows older and he will become MIL's pet ignoring me.
I am in a total confusion.. similar replied. dont worry your son wont feel anything when he grows up. you are working to make is future more secure so there is nothing to feel guilty about u may feel this only in the starting days of separation but once you both get settled ther wont be any problem. I was also thinking same like you but i was wrong my kids love me more they wait to see me in the evening its very nice feeling. my kids stay in creche. but u have a plus point that you son will be at home very safe with ur own people. and i am sure you wont be working your whole life ignoring your son if he wants you besides him right!so dont worry it will get settled very soon only spend quality time with your baby then quantity it will solve your issue. All the best. i hope my exp. helps you.