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How far is it fair to have sex after engagement?? I mean, if ur fiance asks u for having sex before marriage what should u do?? Is it ok or not?? why and why not?? Just reply me.... sarah replied. Men want sex all the time. Weather they are a virgin or not. Its a proven fact the majority of men always want sex. If you feel comforable with it then go for it. Its all about you if you are going to be with him and he loves you he will wait if you dont feel ready. If you feel you are ready go for it if not dont do it. dps replied. hi dear,
u must not have sex with him unless u get married to him. u know there r some guys who try to test u whether would u want to have sex with him...as they would want to judge ur character. so pls hold on and do not jump into it. u can have some other pleasures like kissing etc but sex is a no no before marriage.
Kusum replied. Hi, I agree with Nina. Just wait if u have already waited so long.. matter of few days/months. Nina replied. Hello my friend,
I am so happy for your engagement. I'm sure you're very excited.

I am going to be honest and tell you that you should NOT have sex until you are married.

Oh, I know, that may sound old fashioned, but, you've waited this long...I mean, even if you weren't a virgin, you have waited to this point with this man, just wait a little longer; until you are married.

See, engagements can be broken. Things happen and this is something that could really hurt you in the end...regardless of whether an arranged or love marriage.

So, just play it safe and not have any sex (intercourse) until that time.

I had a cousin sister who got engaged to a man and she did not have sex with him, but, things were getting close to the big day and he backed out...

at least she didn't loose \";everything\";...

I'm speaking as a friend, with a warm heart.


Take care,
Nina