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2002-08-07

Name: Priya Arora Does anyone trust her husband completely? I cannot trust my husband...

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2003-02-01

Name: rati
Subject:

even i don't both sailing in same boat?

hello this rati from pody... how are u just mail message me back and give me ur contact address may be i can help u out... being a good friend

2002-08-28

Name: jade
Subject:

love sick

hi! i am 19 years old. my problem is that i have a seroius boyfrind and this is the first boy who came to my life and he is top georgous all the girls die for him (it's not that i am ugly) he loves me & i love him deeply very much we both do but he used to give car rides to girls & several times people see that & he says it's his friend
when i am seroius at this age what will happen after marriage life ! i at times get embarrased too coz my collegues & peiople whom i don't know too used to say i saw u're boy last night with this & that
what should i do
break up begore too late
but i know he too loves me very much when i weigh him his good sides appear more heavier than the other . the other is this problem ( girls) giving lifts i don't like this
i have to feel deppressed all the time
i am very young though i am physically big i have a mind to enjoy laugh and explore
but now i feel old and i really don't know
how can i live without him. tell me how?
i feel so sad coz at the young age i had to worry
there are soo many boys who used to call me but i never even talk i am faithful indeed very
if we get more serious matter ends up in marriage so after wards how my life will be how?
do i need to suffer ?
tell me please

2002-08-29

Name: SM
Subject:

hi jade

Hi jade,
The moment u start having second thoughts in a relationship, it means its not going well. I mean, the case is that u are in a serious relationship with your boyfriend but he doesnt seem to take it so seriously, so u have to take it easy. First of all u are thinking about marriage with him, has he too committed himself to marrying you? If he has never spoken to u about marriage then maybe he does not feel that way. Maybe he's taking u for granted, just another girl for him like all the girls he flirts with. But if he has spoken about marrying you in the future, then you should have a talk with him about his behaviour and tell him how it disturbs you. Also if he has committed himself to you then he should not do all those things like giving rides to girls, etc. Tell him thats wrong. So the first thing you have to do is find out if he is serious in marrying you. If yes, then he has to stop his habit. If he says he wants to marry you but still does not change his habit, then maybe its best you guys take a break for a few months/years. You are just 19 now, so u have what, like, another 4-5 years to marry. So take a break for sometime, dont see each other and then after a while see if you still both feel the same about each other. This is how yo will have to decide. Dont rush into your future. Courtship and dating days always are the best but once you enter into matrimony, life changes in an instant.
If you do decide to break up, then I know it will be very difficult for u to cope with it. But jade, life goes on. Forget about all that happened and hope that one day some good person will definitely come in ur life. It will be difficult for u to forget him in the beginning but time will heal everything. Hope I have given u some good advise which will be of help to u. If you want any more advise, I will be glad to help u. Write to me.

2002-08-23

Name: Swati
Subject:

Hi!

Priya, you have to be more specific than that. See if you need the others on this post to give you some real advice then you have to tell them where your problem stems from?

Is it that you have a low sex drive and he is diff? Or is it that you two just don't love each other and find the marriage a real hassle to be in? Or is it that he ill treats you? Are you just curious to know whether he is sleeping around behind your back because he travels a lot and has a high sex drive?

I mean these are some of the things one needs to know before offering you some advice

2002-08-12

Name: Priya
Subject:

Thanks all for ur replies

Let me be more specific, my husband and i dont get along much and so we have not been having a sex life either. He travels quite a bit so i feel he being a MAN he surely must be having a sex drive which urges him to sleep with other women at hotels etc.. We are married for 3 years.

2002-08-07

Name: Nina
Subject:

trusting your husband

My Friend,

I trust my husband. I mean I know in my heart he could never have an affair on me...that is how I feel in my heart.

Trusting him with the money, I also trust him; he's a good man...

My Dear, you must specify what you do not trust about your husband...

maybe we can talk you through this matter.

Nina

2002-08-07

Name: friend
Subject:

yes

i too didn't understand what do u mean by trusting ur husband -- in what matters? if it is in extra matital affairs- my answer is YES. not only this, i trust my hubby more than anything else in all aspects.

what's ur problem priya? how long u have been married? why dont u trust ur husband?

2002-08-07

Name: Tensed
Subject:

Trusting ur husband

Hi Priya,
I didnt quite understood the term 'trusting ur husband'. Do u mean trusting him about any extra-marital affairs or something like that. If that is what you mean, then I do trust my husband whole heartedly in this matter. Even in many other matters I trust him a lot. But write to me as to what exactly did u mean by trusting ur husband. Bye.

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