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Hello,

Myself working in a pvt. Concern I m having a son of 1 yr. 3 months old, my problem is : he is very much possessive about me, he keep gud during morning hrs. till evening in play school cum cruch, there is no problem, bt when I went to take him, or my husband, he never wants to leave me for a second even, not allows me even to take a glass of water, to cook food, to do anything. I spend about a hour with him, still he never wants me to leave him.

The worst prblm, with me is he never wants to stop breast feed of mine, during holidays, or Sundays, he never leave me for a sec. and never eat anything, bottle feed etc., just suck me all the time, that much, that even I m becoming so weak and dull.

Sometimes I feel that much embarrassed I never prefer to go anywhere (outside) as he make fun of me among others... he never wants to leave me.

I’ve tried many times, by making him cry, bt coz, of that he became ill, and fell down with fever or some type of prblm, that I’d to ran at that time to doctor.

Can anyone help me on this, I’ll be very helpful, kindly advice me something, I can understand he luvs me, bt he jst caught me like anything.

Regards,

pooja
Priya replied. Hi Pooja,
Don't worry.Even My 18 months old son is also behaves like that.Even I'm also working and in IT companies no predefined timings,so he is missing me alot.So I kept one full time house maid at home, she will be taking him to creche for 2 hours per day.
Buy some rhymes CD's. And when you come back from office don't try to sit in home, take him to park and paly with him for some time.Then slowly leave him in the park(other kids will also be there) and come home and finish your work.Ask your maid to bring him home after some time then put some rhymes again and try to be with him.Give some tasy food little in the beginning and you also sing for him.
I know how much trouble it is when you are feeding, I used to cry alot.
But Pooja, change your life style for hima nd introduce him new things.Not only creche.First few days he will not adjust but after few days he will definitely he will change.
Be happy. Best of luck