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i'm living in india with my inlaws, my hubby is in canada.he called me everyday to get know each other well as we did arrage marriage, didn't get any chance to live together. my mil is creating a big issues that why he is calling u daily and why he is not talking to them daily.i don't know what should i do.i tried my best to avoid the misunderstanding but she is complaining of me to everyone that her son is calling me daily. she is also adding things in to it and tell everyone.my parents are really worried for me. all my hubby family thinks that i don't respect them. theirfamily is less educated family.when ever her daughters came to her house they sit biside the phone all the time and wait for call and talk useless just for showing that they are also important and they can also come between us any time. is i pick the phone from other room then they shout loudly from other room that call us after talking beacuse we also want to talk.
my mil say from her mouth \";yes,she is coming between me and my hubby\";.
then i planned to rent a computer for chating,but she still not quite.she is creating a big issue and telling my fil (as he came from work) today she talk 3 hr, my fil is good in that he said she is his wife and what kind of home is this in which a wife and husband can not talk? after listening this she shut her mouth for a while but then next min she starts again.i did tell my problem to my hubby he has no effect.he said ignore her,i'm going to call u everyday. i ask my mil what is my fault it is ur son who is calling me daily then why are u blaming me? she replied me if he does anything wrong then we think u are the faulty one because it is a wife duity to teach what is right or wrong to her hubby. i said he is not a kid anymore.when i say this she directly complain my hubby that i'm speaking in front of them.i don't respect them. i don't know how to handle this?
i feel like a jail in this house.no body is here for me.i need really help please give me some help to solve out this. my inlaws are spoiling their image in my mind.i afraid what will happen in future?do u think they are dominating on me or they are doing right thing? are they trying to hold me in their hands or they are thinking to save my money?
need help
thanks LA replied. Mommy is jealous that her son is happy with you.

I don't know what to tell you considering I wouldn't have lived with in laws in the first place.

Try to talk to her nicely I guess and tell her that you miss him and that you are not trying to hurt her in any way.

If she doesn't care for it ,maybe you should just ignore her or not be around her as much as possible to avoid problems until u can leave their home.

Or leave if possible.

PLs explain what u decide to do and how things are going kirti replied. i just get married and waiting for my immigration. i hope after 2 months i'll get my immigration papers.my hubby and my mil/sil are very attached with each other but my hubby loves me too very much. his talking to me everyday is getting a big problem.now my hubby also think that i'm speaking in front of them and don't respact them.i don't know what happened to him now. i suggest him to not call me for my sake but he just keep calling me.he said he can't spend his whole day without talking to me.then why he misunderstands that.i really don't understand what is going on.i'm writing this from a cyber cafe and i know when i go home they think that she must call her hubby from PCO.they don't like even if i call him from PCO.
waiting for ur reply.