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hi,every time there is a fight between me &my hubby about married women's abuse by his huaband and mil and others.his argument is first he would always suspect or throw blame on girls parents ,if the girl is being mis treated ,he will say that the girls parents must not have fulfilled the promises made by them ,so the girl is bound to be illtreated,it is ok if she is been illtreated knowing that he has been cheated by girls parents,but my version is this should not be the remedy for all cases,they can aswell sit and discuss and can settle the matter.he will also say, in this situation girl should always be respecting their hubby and mils ,and should behave like an orthodox without giving back answers ,how much ever she is been illtreated.can anyone solve this? replied. Try soaking the brains of people who think the orthodox way in phenyl, detergent, acid. Hopefully their hard core feelings might gradually get wiped off. lata replied. hi roja,
i too dont agree with ur husband. just because a girl is illtreated, that doesnt mean the girls parents or the girl has done some mistake. ask ur husband this thing, does it mean that if the boys parents hv done some mistake, then the girl and her family can ill-treat the boy? come on, even if they hv done a mistake, the in-laws dont hv a right to ill-treat her. the d-i-l is not a small baby/child to ill-treat her so that she'll learn a lesson. as u rightly said, they need to discuss it like adults and not behave childlishly. A replied. Roja,
At least you know what your husband thinks on such issues, that itself is a lot of help.
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