Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

It´ s being about 4 years that I and my husband are married and this low libido issue has always been with us. I have to admit before marriage, I had sxual relationships and I feel no shame in saying so. I am very open about these things and this was the first thing I discussed with my partner. While some of you might already start thinking THIS can be a problem, it´ s not. My hubby appreciates me coming out about things like this and more and has no problem with my past. He does not even feel jealous if I speak to other men. He encourages it and think it´ s best we be friends with people around rather than not. We trust each other and not to mention, love each other.Since the very first day, he has never shown any interest in sax and takes that for granted. I kept on sucking it up because I thought I will just give it time and that if I push it, it will only make it worse as it is such a sensitive topic.It never seems to get better. If ever I question him, he keeps very still..not a word out of his mouth. That frustrates me even more. I really never could get a solution to this. We both want a baby and I am 30 now, but as usual no sax drive. I have tried everything in my power to deal this with love,passion,understanding and what not for him. I was never so patient in my life, but I have shown so much strength. This still goes nowhere. I cant believe he would just see me suffer and do nothing to address it. It has come to a point that I badly want a baby, because of my depression, I even had false pregnancy, where a woman´ s mind tells herself she is pregnant as she madly wants a child, but in reality she is not. It has been so long and my husband has no realization of any of this. I do not know what more I can do. I want a baby so badly, so I will have someone to love and care. Can anyone please help me. I am posting after I tried everything possible. No Name replied. Hello Sweety Priya,
Its better you consult the doctor, they will give solution. Your husband need to go for repeated counselling if he is not gy. Definitely god will fulfill your wish by giving a baby to you as gift. I hope good for you. yamini replied. have you tried saxpert? or have you notice anything suspicious that your husband is gy? pratyaa replied. hi priya first of all dont worry at all. is your hubby ready to come with you to to the saxpert? if yes, they definitely go and consult one. once the saxologist talks to him, he would surely understand. find a good one in your area and take him there. apart from that you also keep your efforts on! dont worry, all would be well soon Socio creature replied. Its about engrossing urself...can help..i m true...with a gud gentlmen qualities..i can fly...i m in engineering field at a high position....pls do...be in touch... ur friend replied. I think you guys should visit some doc and explain the problem. If u want a child it can be done through IVF, or sperm donation.

Another issue could be that ur husband may have a problem with ur past and may not be accepting the fact that there is a problem.

Hope all will be well soon softwareguy007 replied. Hello, I am not a frequent visitor to this site so saw your post late. I am a 34 year married guy with 1 kid - in software industry at a high position. I am located in Mumbai and can travel if required.


Cheers! N replied. Hi Priya, if you want i can help you out in this...u can contact me we will take this forward if you interested... jeet replied. I am jitender from jaipur, we can talk about it...we talk all things there if you really want to be a mother..i am agreed every female in a age want to be mother of a baby...