Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi there,

We are based out of Chennai. With deep sorrow, I am drafting this. Two years before, We had lost our son in a road accident. We believe our son is going to come back to us and we had started IVF cycles, since I am already done with family planning. Unfortunately, I had undergone couple of failed IVF cycles with my own egg. So, we have decided to go for donor IVF. We are looking for a egg donor with fair skin complexion. Excellent compensation will be provided to the donor.
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Sumathi anita khan replied. Hi Sumathi! Hope you are in good health. I am so sorry about your son dear. I know it must have been very hard for you. I have had 2 miscarriages after 2 IVF cycles and I am still trying to get by with my infertility. I know how hard it can be. I am glad that you have not given up hope and willing to go for it further. I have decided to go for surrogacy since IVF is clearly not working out for my and I want my own biological child so this is the obvious choice. I wish you the best of luck. Keep us updated on your journey. Amber05 replied. Hey there! I hope you are doing okay. I feel so sorry for what you had gone through. You made a real struggle. You are such a brave lady. In my case, I also had failed IVF three times. I was fed up with the things. Then I came to know about surrogacy. I opted for it. I went to Europe because it was banned in our country. I found a reputable clinic and very kind surrogate too. I had blessed with a baby boy through surrogacy. It was really a great journey. I hope you will find a donor soon. Wish you the best of luck. God bless you. Raju replied. Hello madam i know if good fertility centers in Chennai please share your mail id so that i can share you their contact details and also you can go and personally visit them at any given point of time as the doctors are very good and helping nature. Reshma replied. Please consider adoption as the first option its easy for you and also it will make you happy, please do not hurt yourself like this and be comfortable what is good for you as this is the only solution i can see at this point of time. Ranjana replied. Hello dear this is really sad what happened but then why are you still trying the IVF method as this is not the solution for the matter and you should think that you should not waste time in this and make some other options for the child. Rajesh replied. Hello madam one suggestion for you if you really want to go for IVF treatment then please consider the egg donor from your relatives as this is very sensitive issue and you cannot just have faith on any unknown person for the same so please think twice of getting the sperm donor from outside. Priyanka replied. According to me you should think that you are not doing the right way as this will affect your health and you should think again and make your husband realize that you not fit for the IVF treatment and need to get some other solution for the same. Priya replied. Hello dear please be calm and relax and why are you trying for IVF when you have already have failed twice in it, please make it a point that you will not succeed if you have failed in that as this has happened to me and have faced lots of issue on the same. Preeti replied. According to me if you have failed twice in IVF then you should not take any risk and make sure that you are getting this out of your mind as it is risking your life, please do not consider for egg donor as this will not help you. All the best dear. Pooja replied. Oh dear this is really sad and i must say that you are really very brave in this as many women give up the idea of getting pregnant again, so hats off to your bravery and will pray for your wellness and also be happy for your well being. Pinky replied. Hello dear this is really sad to see but then i am sure you will be blessed with a kid and your life will be filled with joy and happiness so please make sure that you just focus on your life and be positive always and love your husband. Pari replied. Hello dear this is really to read what happened with you few years back, but then its all destiny and nothing can be done and no one can change it at all, please think positive and make one thing sure that you will not think about it again in life. nikhil replied. hello sumithi,
you should visit good fertility center, as you will definitely get good donor, and you can fulfill your wish to get mother,ans always be positive in life keep positive approach towards life. hrishikesh replied. hello sumathi,
no need to worry, definitely you will get good egg donor, choose the right person, and you can directly ask to person of fertility center about donor, they will provide you good donor too. santosh replied. hello sumathi,
this is really very hard thing , you should be strong and god will always support you, and show you good way of happiness, the things you take in positive way and dont take stress. sadhana replied. hello sumathi,
dont loss your hopes to get pregnant, your desire definitely comes in true , so be sure about you, and dont take stress, it is also keep importance in get pregnant. niraj replied. hello sumathi,
as per my suggestion you should meet good fertility center there you will surely get and egg donor, and will also get the good donor, and try to search in reputed center.
Ranjana replied. Hi dear my best wishes are with you may god give you all the happiness what you truly deserve and all the best for your future please be strong and love your family. Reema replied. Hi dear please do not worry as i am sure you will get a good donor but please choose the right person as its a matter of big concern and you must always choose the right person in this situation. Sarita replied. Hi there please do not make such mistakes as in this you are putting your life in danger how can you select a donor from open forum and why, as you are not aware of the persons habits and other stuff infact you should speak to your family members on the same.