Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

We had been suffering with unexplained pregnancy and it' s been really a roller coaster emotional ride .. Married for 10 years and trying for 7 years now .. Had a natural pregnancy once but miscarried , and since then multiple IUI and 3 failed IVF ...
Tried positive thinking and visualization , yoga , meditationetc etc ..
And now I really want to release my emotions creatively and send it out to universe ... May be many of you would relate to it ..
So here is my heartfelt blog I started today .. Release that pain , let go of that bottled up emotions .. We need to clear some space to receive
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Shivani replied. Hi dear if you please be happy and make your wife also feel that nothing has happened as needs moral support at this point of time and you are the only hope for him and you should be with him. Shivam replied. Hi my friend just a bad experience must say that you are very unlucky in having a baby but if you go for adoption this is the best and easiest way to have a baby why don't you try that option. Shika replied. Hi please feel free to talk as talking and removing the pain releases the emotions of what you have inside, so please do not hesitate and be happy in what you have and not cry for not having anything. Seema replied. Hi there I know how it feels to get rejected when you want something in life, but from here you both have to be more strong and become more powerful to fight this and get a solution for the same. Sarita replied. Hi there just relax and think of your wife as she must be in pain and tell her that its ok if things are not working as you both want and also be calm with her as she needs you the most at this time. Rupali replied. Dear Noopur reading to your post feels sad that you are unable to have a baby but that doesn't mean you cannot have one as there are many other options which you can always try but for now just give some time. Ruchi replied. Hi there if you are planning for some other technique to have a baby then please don't try it on your wife as she is a human being not an alien, please stop harassing her like this and just don't try anything new on her. Richa replied. Dear friend lets not complicate things so much in life that we only cant find a solution for the same, its just that your wife cannot conceive so its totally fine as there are many couples who cant. Reema replied. Looking to your post I can just say that you are just forcing your wife for a baby and you don't love her, if you would have love her you would have not forced her so much to have a baby. Ram replied. Hi bro I can feel the pain through what you are going now as the same was my case but me and my wife opted for adoption as a choice and adopted a baby boy and we are very happy with the decision. Radhika replied. Hi dear why taking so much stress its just that you both need some more time I can understand that you both are trying for seven long years but its god wish that when he wants to give you your bundle of happiness. Archana replied. What a sad story its just that you are not lucky of having your own baby naturally, but it doesn't mean that you cannot have one as there are many options available and you can try either of them. Aparna replied. It feels great that you have so much patience in you, being not conceiving for seven years is too long so what have you decided now, please think twice before doing anything. Anjali replied. Hi dear what a sad thing to happen but never get dejected as this is not the end as medical science has now too many options to have a baby just try any one of them. Anita replied. Hi there finding a solution is most important aspect of this situation and according to me the only solution is adoption, please visit a good adoption centre and take all the information from them. Anamika replied. Dear Noopur why are you forcing so much if you are not able to conceive, try some different methods as there are lots of new options available and you can get easily get through this situation. Amaira replied. Hi Noopur please do not get upset I can understand the problem what you are going through but leaving hope is not the solution you just have to be positive and you will conceive one day. Aditi replied. Hi dear there is nothing to worry but you have been trying for so long now, you should think for another alternate solution and it would be great if you try for adoption as a choice. Priyanka replied. Hi there my good wishes are with you at this point of time you need to just feel positive and think that whatever has happen has been good and it will be fine at the end. Palak replied. Hi Noopur i can understand that you are going to immense pain but dont force this is any more and just leave for some time its better for you and your wife.