Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

We had been suffering with unexplained pregnancy and it' s been really a roller coaster emotional ride .. Married for 10 years and trying for 7 years now .. Had a natural pregnancy once but miscarried , and since then multiple IUI and 3 failed IVF ...
Tried positive thinking and visualization , yoga , meditationetc etc ..
And now I really want to release my emotions creatively and send it out to universe ... May be many of you would relate to it ..
So here is my heartfelt blog I started today .. Release that pain , let go of that bottled up emotions .. We need to clear some space to receive
Search for mydiarytomykids on blogspot
Anju replied. Why are you behaving like and forcing your wife so much and making her feel like she is no use of, please calm her down or else things will become more worse and then it will be of no use to be with each other. Aditi replied. Hi dear this is really unfortunate to happen but then nothing can be done its all destiny and you should think that what ever happened has some good in it and not let your happiness come down. Tarun replied. According to me you should opt for adoption as you have tried all the treatments and nothing is in your favor so just think about it calmly and get it done. Tejas replied. Hi noopur why are you not opting for adoption what is the problem or harm in that as its the best way to have a child if you guys are not able to have your own just think about it. Tejender replied. Hello dear please stop worrying so much and please take good care of your wife as she needs your support and you must not think now for a while about it and give it up for a child. Tanya replied. Hi dear i think you should start practicing yoga and even your wife should do as its the best thing to do and run from depression please find a good yoga classes or a teacher in your area. Tanmay replied. Hi there noopur what a sad thing to happen but lets not discuss the bad part just think the positive thing and keep on trying different ways as one will surely happen good to you and will have a child. Tanvi replied. Hi dear this is not right and you should think that your wife is not able to conceive and start thinking to have a baby through adoption and you will be happy by not forcing your wife to have one. Tina replied. Hi there my good wishes are with you, please understand that you are forcing your wife to undergo such treatments which might affect her health and can even cause danger to her life so please do not force her so much. Reema replied. Hello Noopur please do not worry at all and be happy as this is not the end of life and you will be happy if you think in that manner so stop worrying and be happy with your wife. Reema replied. Hi dear please stop over thinking and leave to god as he is great and will surely pore happiness to you and you should be happy in what he is doing as its his choice and you cannot do anything. Ranjana replied. This is pure destiny and one should respect it, please make sure that you do not loose hope and keep trying till you succeed as it not necessary that all succeed in one go. All the best. Raima replied. My good wishes are with you and i should say that you are bold enough to handle this but your wife is not so please be with her and stop thinking so as what is written for you will surely be yours and will get. Rachna replied. Hi dear what a sad thing to happen and must say that you are quite strong i handling it, please be strong like this and make your wife think positive i am sure you both will become proud parents of a child. Priyanka replied. Hi dear this is very shocking that you and your wife are so eager to have a baby but unfortunately not getting one, please stop trying new methods on your wife and remove the idea of the child. Priya replied. Having such bad experiences what else you want from your wife now, just stop forcing her for gods sake and let her enjoy her life or else she will die in the pain of not getting conceive. Pritam replied. Do you believe in homeopathy if yes then you should try some good homeopathy doctor as the medicines do work for getting conceive and it has almost 99% of success ration just try once. Preeti replied. Trying for so long haven't you tired and why are you not understanding that its not good for you both as a couple, I think you should go and visit a counsellor. Simran replied. Hi dear my sympaties are with you and your wife, have tried or think of adoption as that's the only thing left for you if want to have a baby, where do you stay? Shubham replied. According to me you just have to accept the fact that your wife is unable to have a baby and not force her more to have any other options to try for, just let it be and focus on other things.