Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

We had been suffering with unexplained pregnancy and it' s been really a roller coaster emotional ride .. Married for 10 years and trying for 7 years now .. Had a natural pregnancy once but miscarried , and since then multiple IUI and 3 failed IVF ...
Tried positive thinking and visualization , yoga , meditationetc etc ..
And now I really want to release my emotions creatively and send it out to universe ... May be many of you would relate to it ..
So here is my heartfelt blog I started today .. Release that pain , let go of that bottled up emotions .. We need to clear some space to receive
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Sujata replied. According to me you should not think negative in this infact just stop thinking on it and start focusing on your future as you guys have to go long way and make a beautiful future, all the best dear and i am sure you will be blessed with a child one day. Ankita replied. Hi there i am really sorry for what happened with you and your wife but then its the same story with me also as my husband and myself were unable to start our family so finally we then decided to adopt a kid and then we did that and now today we are very much happy. Aditi replied. Hey dear this is really what happened but then nothing can be changed and now only looking forward can change your life as you cannot change your past at all, please be strong and also make your wife strong enough to forget all those things and start moving ahead. Anushree replied. According to me you should be positive and just be happy with your wife and also make her feel that nothing has gone wrong with you guys, please make it a point that you should not think anymore of trying a child and just concentrate with your life and future. Anu replied. Hello my friend this is really sad to read your post and i can feel the pain and can understand what you guys have gone through it, please be strong and make your wife feel that its ok and should not feel bad at all. All the best dear and love your wife the most. Anita replied. According to me you are really very brave and also your wife is, please take some break from your routine life and just enjoy each others company and just love yourselfs as you both have to deal with it at the end, do not think negative at all and be positive. Anaida replied. Oh my dear this is really sad to see what happened with you but then its all in gods hand and destiny, please do not worry at all as i am sure god is watching and will bless you guys with a beautiful child very soon and you will be proud parents. Tejas replied. Hi noopur do not take tension and plan some good outing with your wife and if you guys have couple friends then plan with them in group so that she feels happy in the group and forgets all the pain. Tanya replied. Looking to the post if feels like you have pressurized your wife to such a extent that now she is unable to come out of the trauma and now you are worried to what can be done please grow up and start loving your wife the way she is. Tina replied. Hi noopur please do not loose hope as you are the man of the family and also your wife needs your support which is the need of the hour so please make sure you are with her and making feel that nothing big has happened. Yasmin replied. Hi noopur according to me you should now stop forcing your wife to conceive and try to have a baby through adopting one, this is the only solution left for you and you should not feel bad about it. Geetanjali replied. You guys definitely need a break from your routine and must go for it, please plan some good vacation with your wife and this will help you in gaining the confidence of your wife and even she will be less stressful. Geeta replied. Seven years is long journey and i think you should not opt for any other treatment and must think that you guys are worth for more but after sometime, please go for the adoption process. Girish replied. Hi noopur please do not force your wife for any other treatment as she will not be able to handle the pain anymore just visit some good orphanage and have a baby adopted from there as this is the only solution to this problem. Garima replied. Looking to your post i can imagine the pain of your wife through which she must have gone, really feeling sad and my good wishes are with and with your family may god bless you with a cute baby. Geetu replied. Hello noopur i think you both need a break why dont you guys plan some holiday and just go out for sometime and just enjoy each others company this will surely release the pressure and your wife will calm down. Gautam replied. Hi my friend this is enough of torture to your wife as she is also a human being please do not try any other treatment as she will not be able to cope up and it would be better to leave this here and move forward. Anamika replied. Hello noopur myself a gynac if you want any sort of help please feel free to mail me your issue will guide in this matter as i need to you both to be happy couple and nothing to worry as it happens with many couples. Anjali replied. Please be with your wife as needs your support and she must be feeling guilty about not giving the happiness to the family, please make her feel that its not her mistake and things will be back to normal. Anaida replied. It happens in nowadays this is a very common issue as many of couples fail to become parents, nothing to worry as you can always choose the option of adoption as that is the easiest way to have the child.