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hi

i am going for treatment for past 2 yrs or more !!

in jan 2009 i got pregnt n had bleeding during it and it led to abortion !! later aftr some break n again in dec 2009 i got pregnt again and evrything was fine !! whn i went to check th heart beat for the baby the doc told it was an ectopic pregncy !! tht baby had heart beat too !!

i had to go for immd laproscopy becoz the feotus was big enuf for it to rupture the tube !! during the surgery the doc had to remove the my right side tube !!

aftr tht i have been going on with my treatment they usually say its takes alternative months for the right n left side if the tube but for me its was mostly in the left side as i wanted too !!

thro my folicullar study n all evrything is fine and i go thro iui for better chances !!

today i took a test aftr 2 weeks of iui and prescribed with susten200mg my test was negative !!

my doc said to wait for yr period and then come agin for the next cycle treatment !!

y is this happening ? i mean evrything is rite and still its nt happening to me y ?

Sarika replied. Why are you forcing yourself so much just dont try to get it done, if its not happening there must be a reason for it. Please leave for some time and start with a fresh mind and try. Sagar replied. Hi i can feel the pain and pressure of yours as my wife had the same issue after long struggle we gave up the thought and planed to have a child through adoption center and that really helped us. Seema replied. Hi Anu please do not get panic as its common issue and nothing to think negative about it, just think that its not the right time and things will fall in place. Shika replied. Hi try to mediate more as this is bet best solution for any problem. Just relax and give another chance i am sure you will succeed in that. Divya replied. Hi there really sad to hear that you have been unable to conceive it happens with many but please be strong and i am sure you will be able to conceive very soon. Deepa replied. Hi there is there any adoption center near your area if yes then please visit the same as its high time you to consider the fact that it is not possible to get conceive. Ishita replied. Hi please speak to your husband and get a solution for the same and accept the way it is, try to find different ways of getting a child in your life. Nisha replied. Hi Anu i can understand the pain what you are going through please do not get worried and just give yourself some time and things will be on place. Monika replied. Hi please why the need of taing such pain when you can opt for an easy way just go adoption and it will solve your issue and the purpose of having the child. Ankita replied. Hi Anu its very sad thing that has happened to you,please do not get dejected as this is life and anything can be possible just be positive my best wishes are with you. alka replied. i got treated in chennai MMM(madras medical mission).. usually the doctor would suggest to go for atleast minimum 3 iui cycles before going in for further treatment.. even my doctor told the same.. but fortunately i got pregnant in my second attempt.. usually it happens dat most of iui cases succeeds in second attempt.. also depends on wat problem.. so if u have plans to go for ivf.. i would suggest u go for second opinion.. as ivf drains u financially and emotionnaly. all the very best for ur treatment.. lots of baby dust on you... Jaya replied. Hi This is Jaya (33) from Delhi ! Can anyone help me with my problem. Its been 5 years since I am married. I have consulted 3-4 doctors during this period. Also gone through 3 cycles of IUI. At present consulting at Ganga Ram with Dr. Bhandari from last 3-4 months. She has also done Laproscopy and found that my tubes are thinned out at lateral ends with sacculations. Ovaries normal, Left overy slightly smaller in size. And after that I have been gone through 1 cycle of IUI again but again failed. Can someone please help me out that what should I do now as I am tired with the same treatment(IUI) Should I go for IUI again as my doctor says that after Laproscopy there are good chances with IUI. Or should I try IVF now and from where? Is Ganga Ram is the the right place for it or if any of you can suggest a good Doctor who is specialist of IVF. I will be really grateful for your help. Smita replied. Hi Anu,
i am smita from blr and have similar case just like you. Want to know if anythg positive after all this?

Smita.
alka replied. do nt worry.. iui usually clicks with the second attempt.. i have seen others as well as my own experience.. in my case also everything was perfect stilll it did nt happen to me in my first attempt.. usually the body needs to get accomodated for all the injections which we undergo.. for me my first attempt was too painful.. starting from my first day of injection i had pain un till i got my periiods.. but for my second attempt there was no pian at alll.. i got a positive result.. so do nt worry.. you will happen to become pregnant in your nexxt cycle.. all the very best.. lots of baby dust on you..