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hi
we living together from almost 3 years and we have a baby too.presently we are living alone in canada but his family is going to come in two year.my hb loves me (as he said all the time to me) and off cource i do too but i want to find out with ur views as here more experenced women sharing their view.
if a hb loves u but slap u some times in anger(when i'm aggressive)and then feel very sorry and loves u even more then before.don't really like ur parents as ur parents say some harsh words to him but he respect them,try to make a ideal hb but only in front of u not in front of third person not even his parents.he said he feel like a week man if he support my worng thing or words in front of third person.he said he have to correct the wrong person either u or his parents and sister.he helps in kitchen with u and serves u food on special days. but these all buttering is only between him and u not if third person joins u.
what will u say for that type of man?
he have two faces and i feel like very confusing about him he seems to be very different in front third person with me like very strong man with bone in his back but when he and me are alone he do all the things i wish from him.so is that type of hb is really loves u..if ur hb do like this with u what will u figure out?plztell me i would love to read this.
thanks
mdh vs replied. I think your hb is still caught up in the old idea of masculinity. Maybe his father and the men he grew up with were like this and so may not be even aware that the world around has changed and nowadays men who are gentle and caring are more desired. Maybe you should move around with families where men are not afraid to be caring and loving or you both can benefit from marriage counselling. Also remember being loving and caring applies to both of you.