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trying to research on working mothers' problems. any comments anyone? pooja replied. Hello dear sash,

I read about ur views on working mothers, thru this site only and also get to know about some shows of urs and the interesting thing is u r eager to know, the prblms, if any, working mothers face with their cute kids.

Myself working in a pvt. Concern I m having a son of 1 yr. 3 months old, my problem is : he is very much possessive about me, he keep gud during morning hrs. till evening in play school cum cruch, there is no problem, bt when I went to take him, or my husband, he never wants to leave me for a second even, not allows me even to take a glass of water, to cook food, to do anything. I spend about a hour with him, still he never wants me to leave him.

The worst prblm, with me is he never wants to stop breast feed of mine, during holidays, or Sundays, he never leave me for a sec. and never eat anything, bottle feed etc., just suck me all the time, that much, that even I m becoming so weak and dull.

Sometimes I feel that much embarrassed I never prefer to go anywhere, he never wants to leave me.

I’ve tried many times, by making him cry, bt coz, of that he became ill, and fell down with fever or some type of prblm, that I’d to ran at that time to doctor.

Can u help me on this, I’ll be very helpful to u, kindly advice me something, I can understand he luvs me, bt he jst caught me like anything.

Regards,

pooja
sash replied. Hi,

this is for all of you who were nice enough to share your experiences with me. My email address is sashg80(at)gmail(dot)com. Do mail if you have anything to add to your comments.

warm regards,
Sash my baby replied. hi sash just went thru sereies of answers and would like to know what this show is abt and would like to get involved in it....i am also a working mom with my 3 yr old son back at home and going thru all those problems which all my fellow friends have gone....and i think u are a solution provider for all of them...can we pls discuss our problems... laddu replied. Dear Sash, I am working in an MNC, as a s/w engineers want to put my kid in cresche/day boarding but i cant do. My kid is getting spoiled and not getting the healthy environment what that little angel of 2 years deserves. But husband is ignorant and keep comparing our kid with that of his brothers daughter, insist on keeping the child with his brothers wife. My father in law and mother in laws has expired. I am earning well but cant do anything. Cant keep a maid at home for support as this is against there tradition and moreover they dont like maids work. Although working, i was being pressurised to do all housesehold chores even when i was 9 months pregnant, without any support.

Time is passing and things are getting out of my control. He is getting ignorant about his responsibilities and focussing more on his brother needs.

Sash, I feel you are doing a very good job in bridging the helplessness of working mothers. Pls let us know when this programme is being launched and some or the other way these guys must be told that marriage and kid needs commitment from both side. One shouldnt stretch so much that things breaks.
Regards
Laddu Anjali replied. Hi, I am working as a software engineer and i have a little 2 year young doll... we tried all the possible options to manage our life better and best ... and I feel that my daughter will also feel proud after sometimes that I am a working mom.. still sometimes I feel that I need my baby's precious time... :)) Anjali replied. Hi, I am working as a software engineer and i have a little 2 year young doll... we tried all the possible options to manage our life better and best ... and I feel that my daughter will also feel proud after sometimes that I am a working mom.. still sometimes I feel that I need my baby's precious time... :)) hash replied. what kind of research are you doing? and how will that benefit working mothers?