Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi All,

We are married for 4 years.We are trying for baby for 1 year .Still no success.The problem is my husband cannot ejaculate inside me.He just cannot.However he can ejaculate by masturbation.So we tried the method of he ejaculating inside me after masturbation.Also my vagina is mostly dry.So I need to masturbate to make it wet before he makes his way to ejaculate(sorry for written in detailI just want to know if the method we do is right or wrong).But even then most of the semen comes out of vagina.Is the method we are following effective.Any any body tried having baby this way.Please help.Iam very depressed tj replied. Hi Rama,

Did this method work for you, we are going through the same issue and wondering if this method worked for you? Please reply KEVIN replied. Dear All, Even i am facing the same problem. I am trying for a baby since 3 months,My wife vagina is sooo tight, that i cant insert my penis inside her vagina nor can ejaculate, i need to put a lot of pressure when inserting. i feel like there is some resistance.Also my penis is thick.I tried to check vagina innner diameter, it can only accomodate my middle finger,the hole is too small, if i try to put two fingers its really hard to insert.For now i am masturbating and when i reach climax i put head of penis inside her and will release sperms. then i will raise her back by keeping a pillow to make sure the sperms flow downwards. Is this the right method.Can my wife become pregnant with this. Please give us a solution. We are really worried. KEVIN replied. Dear All, Even i am facing the same problem. I am trying for a baby since 3 months,My wife vagina is sooo tight, that i cant insert my penis inside her vagina nor can ejaculate, i need to put a lot of pressure when inserting. i feel like there is some resistance.Also my penis is thick.I tried to check vagina innner diameter, it can only accomodate my middle finger,the hole is too small, if i try to put two fingers its really hard to insert.For now i am masturbating and when i reach climax i put head of penis inside her and will release sperms. then i will raise her back by keeping a pillow to make sure the sperms flow downwards. Is this the right method.Can my wife become pregnant with this. Please give us a solution. We are really worried. Dr.Sharma replied. Hello,
I guess , Rama is correct . You should take consultancy from Gyno and try below :
As per your situation and trying for concieve , you could take the advantage of ovulation Kit .
This LH ovulation kit will predict if you are ovulating .
to get know about ovulation is very helpful for concieve .
If your cycle length is 28 days then your body will discharge LH hormon from day 12 to 16 (Depends)
During this ovulation period you can make the intercourse then the chances will be increase for pregnency.
they will deliver you ovulation kit at your location.
And you can take following instructions :

1- Use Pillow under hips during sex .With this method lot of sperm will stay in vagina .

2- Use Folic Acid and multi vitamin Tablets regularly .

3- Do not use any Lubricant / Gel / Oil/ Cream during sex .As it all damage
sperms .

4- Take daily 30 Minutes of walk .

5- Check your thyroid , if it is not normal , consult with doctor.

6- Do not take bath in Hot water . Try to take in Low hot water.( You and your partner)

7- Use ovulation Kit for checking that when you are ovulating . Make the sex
every alternet day during ovulation .

8- Do not take any stress and enjoy sex .

9- Try to make your vagina sperm friendly .Do not go immidiate for toilet after sex.

10-If you have little bit over weight then try to reduce that also with exercise or yoga .

11- Before making the intercourse , it is required to have foreplay with your partner.with this method lot of problem will clear naturally.



To get a baby is no more difficuly now a days

hope you will get baby soon .
Thanks
Dr.Sharma Ramaya replied. Being part of healthcare field, i can suggest you following to overcome the ejaculation issue of ur husband,
a) Ask your husband to manstrubate and collect his semen in sterile clean container ( e,g Urine culture bottle which can be bought from chemist shop). Then collect the semen in Syringe (without needle). Insert the syringe into vagina and push the plunger slowly. Some of the semen might come out but its very normal.
Keep pillow under ur hips and dont move at all after the transfer of semen. You can learn more about this technique from internet,its known as Self Insemination used a lot by lesbians in West.
2, Another technique is to buy IUI catheter from market. Transfer semen into syringe from container. Insert the catheter inside vagina and connect the other end of catheter with syringe (without needle). Pull the plunger.
I suggest that you visit Doctor and ask him/her to demonstrate the technique to you.
Dont be shy and discuss ur problem with doctor. She will guide you.
Above process should be done during ovulation period to maximize the chances
All the best! rajeev replied. Dear Rama,

I think u should go for IUI, becoz it' s a very good option for you. xx replied. the same methode we have use and successed, dont worry , ever its dry keep doing many time during ovelution time all the best anju replied. Speak to lady doc. she will be the right person to help you and please dont give your email id to anyone here this is a request RV replied. Dear Rama,

I can quite understand your feelings
and sympathise with the situation.

However, never despair and give up
easily as it involves both physical
and mental involvement on the part
of both partners to enjoy sex and
derive utmost satisfaction adopting
good techniques.

I wish to send you a detailed descriptive account on what is
good sexual intercourse and some
tips on ejacultion techniques
directly drawn from the ´ Kamasutra´
which can be practised to attain
perfection.



Your well wisher,

RV