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I am 5 months pregnant and am unmarried. i cameto know of it only yesaterday.i cant keep the baby, is father is going to get married to someone else and i dont have parental support or financial independence to go ahead with having the baby. i want to know if I can still go in for an abortion nad what pro's and con's are there?someone please help Ima getting sucidical, A replied. Hi Neeraja,
My response to your message may come as a surprise but you should think if you were unwanted child would you loved to be aborted. Every life has meaning so is new life within your womb!

This sound like a problem in 60s, when people were uneducated and did not know what to do and how to have control. I am terribly surprised that in these days also, one who knows how to deal internet, don't know yet how to play when it comes to sexual pleasure and it's pros-conseq. The fact you did not worry for this part, get this pregnancy as a lesson and make this pregnancy go through. That's the way you can bring some justice to this new life.
Practically you have no right to terminate unless baby is deformative in it's development. I feel so sorry to say, there are millions craving/dying to have baby.
OK enough of my anger:
Here is something you can do, find out some parenthood in your neighbor and have this baby delivered at it's full term. Should you not want to take economical responsibility, leave this child to orphanage, I know this is not a best option, atleast baby will live in the world where it's destined to be. If you don't mind then go ahead to adoption board and see if someone is out there to understand your difficulty. Aborting at this stage is killing life, which in itself is regarded as a crime.

Hope you give second thought and bear all difficulties till you deliver this baby. You have had peasure of share now it's time to pay back.

If you know father, bring his attention to his responsibilities. He should not run away. If you can't convice him then deliver baby and offer to some needy family.

Remember you can't bring some life for pleasure and kill again for the pleasure, that's job of monster.

Good luck
A S replied. My God Neerja what were you doing these 5 months? COnsult a doctor immediatly and consult her about the abortion. I would also suggest you to take your mother into confidence though I can imagine how her reaction would be.