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Trying since long:My story...your stories
2008-04-23
Name: Bindu



I am 34 and my hubby is 43. We have been married for 5 years now and started TTC last year. After couple of tests, found out that sperm is dead in my cervix. His sperm count is fine. So the conclusion is that I have either sperm anibodies or ph in my mucus that is not favourable for sperms to enter. I am seeing a fertility specialist now who suggested IUI. First IUI was not sucessful. Just did my second one and keeping my hopes high. If this doesn' t work I am planning to do a hsg to eliminate any tube issues. It has been a long, hard, emotional journey for both of us but we are getting better at handling things now. I used to take my anger/frustration out on my dh but not anymore. We are in US in a remote place so we don' t have many friends and no family so all we have is each other and this had made us come closer even more. This board has been a life line to me in ways I cannot express.
Is there anyone who would like to share your story so that we can feel like we are not alone. Thanks in advance.
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2008-07-09
#1
Anonymous Name: km
Subject:  keep your hopes high



Hi bindu

we live in US and we too don' t have many friends and family so i can understand your feelings. we had 3 IVF' s failed and doctors told me i have low egg count and suggested for donor egg. still we want to try naturally becz if we are stressed out body doesn' t produce good eggs. still i have not lost hopes. you problem is nothing compared to me. if you have sperm dying in cervix you can go for IVF after trying a couple of IUIs. so don' t get frustated it will effect your health. everything will be fine.
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2008-05-05
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Anonymous Name: ARUN AND RITU
Subject:  DEAR BINDU



HI BINDU! ITS VERY SAD TO KNOW ABOUT THE DEAD SPERMS OF URS BUT PLS DONT WORRY ABOUT IT AND V WUD LIKE TO TELL U THAT V ALSO HAVING SOME PROBLEM IN CONCEIVING. IT MIGHT B POSSIBLE THAT V WILL BE ABLE TO CONCEIVE AS OUR DOC. SAID LAST TIME. HERE I TOLD THIS THINGS BCOZ MY WIFE RITU ALSO HAV A PROB IN HER HSG. AND SHE HAS 50-50 CHANCES TO CONCEIVE!
SO I TOLD THIS EVERYTHING IS CURABLE IN THIS WORLD. PLS DONT WORRY ABOUT U WILL BE ABLE TO CONCEIVE BUT U WILL HAV TO DO THE THINGS WHICH UR DOC. SUGGESTED U!
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2008-04-25
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Anonymous Name: Dd
Subject:  Hi



Hi Bindu,
My problem is same as yours & it falls under unexplained fertility.
I have shared my story & all the experiance of my treatment in unexplained infertility section an made many friends there. I have been thru 4 iui' s & my doctor has asked me to stop it for 4 months untill summe is over, that is in july. So jus mainly keeping myself busy with my career.
I don' t want to dispappoint u. Keep the hopes up & always think positive. God ahas some plan for all of us & we will get what we deserve one day.
It is really goot to know that your husband is supprtive. We also have same relationship, very great understanding & we r best of frinds to eachother.
Regards
Dd
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