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Problems with In-Laws?

Every marriage comes with adjustment because of the union of two different families. Neither does it mean the end of one's freedom nor putting up with torture. The key is to find a balance. Learn some ways to tide over some uncomfortable situations.

It's so much easier to cry about the way things are, to grumble and to complain, than it is to build up the courage to change our circumstances.  We'd rather leave it up to God, and when we 'realise' that God is not hearing our cries, we start losing faith. A man sat in a boat and expected God to row him ashore. God didn't, the boat capsized and when the man reached heaven he asked God why He didn't save him. "I cried for help God. Why didn't you come to my aid?" "But I did!" said God. "I gave you the oars!"

Everyone has their share of problems, and dealing with difficult in-laws is one problem faced by most Indian women. 

Shradha's mother-in-law constantly taunted her, and though she complained to her husband, he preferred to stay out of it. He was supportive, but didn't want to intervene. It was only when Shradha had a nervous breakdown did he realise the severity of the situation, and he moved out of his parents' home with his wife and children. 
 

Move Out

While living separately can change a lot of things, due to financial restrictions it is not always possible to move out of the parents home, at least, not at the drop of a hat. But they could always aim towards buying a house of their own. For every couple undergoing in-law problems, their first goal should be to find independent accommodation, so they can live in peace and bring up their children in a loving atmosphere. 
 

Get A Job

If moving out is not possible for the time being, you, as a woman should change your mindset and try and become more proactive. Get a job. Speak to your friends, neighbours, anyone you know, to find out if anyone knows of any vacancies. Go for interviews and don't take it as a personal insult if you are not selected for the job. J.K. Rowling was rejected by more than 20 publishers before she finally got someone to publish Harry Potter. And now, she's a millionaire 20 times over!

If you are not career oriented and don't forsee yourself in a high-profile career, opt for an easygoing job that will get you out of the house by 9, and in by around 5:30. It will be a change of atmosphere for you. You will make new friends, interact with new people, and no matter how light your job, it will definitely contribute to your personality development.  Getting out of the house, rushing to your office, mingling with colleages or customers, making your contribution to the workforce and the economy, getting your salary check at the end of the month, looking forward to weekends and hating Monday mornings, are all parts of the life of an office-goer, and have their own charm. 

A job routines you. You're out of the house at a particular time, and you're back at a certain time. As a result, you bathe on time, breakfast on time, lunch on time etc. If you feel that you will not have enough time to do all the things you want to do when you're in a job, you'll be surprised at how you still manage to fit in everything!. True, you'll have to miss those kitty party mid-week lunches, but it's a small sacrifice for something that's so much more fulfilling in the long run. Before you know it, you'll be taking time out for other activities by waking up earlier in the mornings or spending less time in front of the television. 

Don't take up a job at the other end of the town if you can avoid it, especially if you are a working mother and have no permanent help. Waking up early every morning to cook lunch for your family and then rushing out to catch the local train, returning home and cooking dinner - is not what I would call an ideal existence. Such an existence is a reality for many, due to the force of circumstance, but I have always believed that the human will is a far more powerful force, and can overcome the force of circumstance with perseverance.  Don't be afraid of change. 
 

Keep Your Distance

Continue to respect your mother in law - she is, after all, your husbands mother - but don't be submissive. Be cordial and polite, but keep your distance - physically and emotionally. Don't try and win her over, or it will only cause more hurt when you are faced with ingratitude. 

Don't volunteer needlessly. If you are asked for help, and if you are free or can fit it into your schedule, help out by all means, but if you don't have the time, say so firmly and politely, and offer to extend help the next time.
 

Cultivate A Hobby

Join a performing arts class like dancing or singing. It will help you release some of that pent-up frustration and stress. 
 

Find Your Inner Strength

Don't let yourself get upset by the constant nagging, snide remarks and ingratitude of vicious in-laws. Though this is easier said than done, you will have to work at it, and this is only possible once you have your own life, so go for it! 
 
 

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Name: Namrata
Country: India

It started 1 year back when i got married to my boyfriend. I am a north indian and he is a maharashtrian guy. First, everything was fine and then it started...... 1) My MIL feels that my upbringing is worst and she can only bring up children in a proper way...like her SON and DAUGHTER....her daughter of course is the best..A working DIL is not good wife...(She is working too but she is a good wife) 2) My MIL feels that i have worst dressing sense and wear cheap clothes...that does not match her society standards..i wear what i LIKE to and i am comfortable in...not what is costly 3) A girl or shall i call "SUUN" that what these people call their DIL, has to wear all sorts of gold ornaments like...everyday...everytime....I HATE ORNAMENTS TO BE PRECISE 4) She is more bothered about reputation in society than happiness of her own son and DIL..we get no privacy as she monitors my health issues also claiming that she is a NURSE...how ever let me remind that they are not supposed to prescribe..its ILLEGAL.. 5) I was once taunted regarding my hometown as well....but when it comes to their home town its the best...a village without streets...forget about street lights...and they expect me to go there every festival..... 6) Recently they have bought a 2BHK by selling their 1 BHK and i am afraid i will have to leave my rented house and stay with them in their house or shall i call it "EMPIRE".......I WANT TO BUY A SEPARATE HOUSE INSTEAD... Sugesstions Please...
 
Name: AMANDA
Country: Australia

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My mother in law is hard to please. She keeps on nagging and creating problems for me. She does not want me to engage a maid and tells me that I have to do all my work myself. She tells my maid that I do not trust her. On the other hand she tells me that I have to supervise my maid all the time since she does not do her work properly. She is trying her best to drive out my maid. My maid is also unnecessarily getting involved in my family issues which I do not appreciate.Please tell me how I can tell my mil to mind her business and also retain my maid since it is very hard to get maids nowadays.
 
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Name: maryann
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Am giving this testimony because someone out there may have similar problem My Husband doesn’t think polygamy is wrong. He has been seeing another girl for about four months now. I told him that he needs to stop, but he says he is in love with her. They’ve talked about being together “forever” and eventually her moving in with us. My husband still loves me. He regrets getting into this in the first place, but is not willing to just break up with her. He says if they so break up then thy will be it and he will not pursue another relationship.
 
Name: nita
Country: India

i am an Indian woman, facing problem at in laws place... i want to get separated but my hubby is not ready.
 
Name: kajal
Country: India

i don't understand why in-laws are given so much of important
 
Name: simran
Country: India

this article is so encouraging and uplifting..:)
 
Name: samson
Country: Australia

I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he was returning my calls,he started cheating,he was hurting me in so many ways i never thought possible and I just thought I should try it*maybe out of desperation of some sort*..and I contacted them..At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,their consultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of fake spell casters,scams and i never really believed in magic..I played along with a little hope and and faith and I was sent some few stuffs after everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to a while new direction,it was and is amazing...I guess it was all good faith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hope they could help other people too like they did me...I did a little and I got everything I wanted and wished for*my husband,my family and my life back*
 
Name: Divya
Country: India

Same is the case with me. My Husband has been brainwashed by my in laws so much that he is not ready to listen & ready to leave me. If i am not coming to their terms & what are the terms? 50% salary in joint account for lifelong( already given them 1 lakh rupee by taking loan & bought all household item by my salary for our living) will h've go to his home 3-5 times in year(we live far away from them) will not go to your parental home while visiting hometowm(both are from same place) if you ar not doing job for baby's sake( i have a 6 month old baby) then permanently live with them without my husband. I tolerated all these & were constantly living under pressure & depression for 4 years. My husband tells them every details of our living & they interfere too much in my life. Some times i think even for peeing also he needs her permission. Now i refused to act under pressure. If my husband loves me,he will come to me after some time.otherwise its best to cry for some time than for whole life.
 
Name: NIthya
Country: India

i need solution for my problem. my mother in law and father in law using illegal words on me and my family. giving torture for dowry. she tell and give to my husband and making problem with us. he beating me bcoz of her. i want to give complaint on her. have to go separate with my husband. please help me otherwise i ll make suicide.
 
Name: vai
Country: India

i want to a simple question to all working married womens, that it is right to give all your salary in your inlaws hand & then ask them pocket money. pls suggest me the answer. i am in very difficult situation
 
Name: Helpless handicap female
Country: India

Well there is so much to burst out but will try to tell you. I am 27yrs old female and got married 3yrs ago with a very kind person. I am handicap and I lost parents at an early age. My sisters took care of me. So when my husband proposed me my sisters insisted to get married. He is Maharashtrian (only son ) and I am North Indian.I am well versed with marathi language and the custom as I am brought up here only.We got married and there were only 3 of us at home . MIL, my hubby and myself.The problem started after a month of marriage. My MIL went for a knee replacement operation after our immediate marriage and I have to take care of everything along with work. However, she started complaining about my work and used to complain my sisters about this. This frustrated me and I used to discuss that if you have any problem then tell me not my sisters. If that didnt work...she used to call my husband on mobile (while he was at work)and complain and he used to call me even though I was at work. I said that lets discuss all small things at home as I cannot concentrate on work because of such dispute .For few days it used to calm but again she used to start. We didnt had privacy as she sleeps in the bedroom and we sleep in th hall. Then I got pregnant and things were the same. Sometime she used to keep quiet but she disturb alot banging vessels,disturbing us while we are asleep. Because of which I used to make lots of mistake at work and one day I lost my job in a very big company. delivered a baby girl and was sent to my sisters place for 45 days as she wanted to burden my widow sister. After that I was at home only. She used to serve food for me but on phone she used to tell her friends that she eats so much and my son only earns.He is having so much of pressure etc etc. She used to backbite about me with her friends and the maid.Also many a time in my presence. This lady never sits at home she keeps on roaming here and there with someone or the other and used to speak ill about my character. Being widow she dont follow like the old people do. She wants her privacy....costly soaps, deos and shining sarees..nowadays she thinks that she is too young and started wearing punjabis...However when we couple go out then she gives bad words etc.
 
Name: Helpless handicap female
Country: India

Well there is so much to burst out but will try to tell you. I am 27yrs old female and got married 3yrs ago with a very kind person. I am handicap and I lost parents at an early age. My sisters took care of me. So when my husband proposed me my sisters insisted to get married. He is Maharashtrian (only son ) and I am North Indian.I am well versed with marathi language and the custom as I am brought up here only.We got married and there were only 3 of us at home . MIL, my hubby and myself.The problem started after a month of marriage. My MIL went for a knee replacement operation after our immediate marriage and I have to take care of everything along with work. However, she started complaining about my work and used to complain my sisters about this. This frustrated me and I used to discuss that if you have any problem then tell me not my sisters. If that didnt work...she used to call my husband on mobile (while he was at work)and complain and he used to call me even though I was at work. I said that lets discuss all small things at home as I cannot concentrate on work because of such dispute .For few days it used to calm but again she used to start. We didnt had privacy as she sleeps in the bedroom and we sleep in th hall. Then I got pregnant and things were the same. Sometime she used to keep quiet but she disturb alot banging vessels,disturbing us while we are asleep. Because of which I used to make lots of mistake at work and one day I lost my job in a very big company. delivered a baby girl and was sent to my sisters place for 45 days as she wanted to burden my widow sister. After that I was at home only. She used to serve food for me but on phone she used to tell her friends that she eats so much and my son only earns.He is having so much of pressure etc etc. She used to backbite about me with her friends and the maid.Also many a time in my presence. This lady never sits at home she keeps on roaming here and there with someone or the other and used to speak ill about my character. Being widow she dont follow like the old people do. She wants her privacy....costly soaps, deos and shining sarees..nowadays she thinks that she is too young and started wearing punjabis...However when we couple go out then she gives bad words etc.
 
Name: evergreen
Country: India

Hi, Give me suggestion to manage my inlaw. She is talkative. Always ruling me but not to do house hold works but to do my own work. She always thinks that whatever she does is right. I have to do what she says.I have to give my kid what she suggests. Always praise his son alone and not me. Always treat my kid as his sons kid and never allow me or my family to have more touch with the kid. She is very possesive with her son. She needs money money money. She wants to buy all the things which are costly for daily use. She spends money like water. Above all I cant bare when she always comments me to do my own work. Her torture is different. Please suggest me how to deal with her?
 
Name: Kumar
Country: India

Do women only face the problem of harassment from inlaws? What about harassed husbands Dominating Inlaws, indifferent wife.
 
Name: Vaidehi
Country: India

I have been married since 1 & 1/2 yrs. We don't stay with in laws, but they often visit us for around 15 days. They torture me like anything. They wont allow me to work in the kitchen as they are very orthodox, they wont allow me to watch TV, they want to sit and listen to they lecture. I am working in a software company and very heavy work, i get tired and come back home only to listen their taunts. My husband is very very kind and silent nature, whatever his cruel mom and dad say he agrees, and scold me every time. If i speak with them, they never listen, and start giving lecture or arguing with me, if i don't speak, they complain to my husband that she sits idle, she wont speak, she don't have manners to speak a word at least. I get tired and come from office with health problems around, they wont allow me to take rest. They scold me and complain my husband they she wont speak with us, she goes and sleep in her room. They haven't let our husband-wife relation to grow, by always bothering us. They always interfere in our personal matters. I am currently undergoing psychiatric treatment, still neither my husband nor my in laws able to understand my condition. They are too cruel. Also they dont have a girl child. And i have 2 brother in law's. My husband is the eldest of them. One of my brother in law is very cruel, another is very immature. The one who is immature used to stay with us for many days. We did not had privacy at all. Now when he moved out of our house when his childhood friend came to this place, my in laws are blaming me, that i have broke their family and all. They call up and complain something wrong about me to my husband, so that we should fight. Now they have come here for a month and creating misunderstandings between me and my husband. I have tried it very hard to change my husband, but he is not understanding it at all. I do 100 things to change him, but no use. It has become an unsolvable and intolerable issue. I want to walk out of this marriage, or suicide. Please help, please give some advice.
 
Name: priya
Country: India

Pls advise, i am 1st dil to my inlaws. They tortured me like anything especially my mil acting too smart before all others and my husband and fooled me by comparing me to my cosister who was married wihtout informing to their parents. when after 6 months of my marriage they used nag me by saying i dont have children and by god grace i became pregnant and had one wonderful child. Now my cosister was conceived after 4 years. They dont treat both me and cosisters in a same way. They give great respect to her and degrade me in every extent before others to me even before my hb. My cosisters hb supports her very much so they dont open their mouth and she got love marriage and me got arranged marriage. My dh allways degrade me in everyextent by comparing to others. I was strong those days and started doing job and studying and by keeping my son with them this many days. But now the problem is my Inlaws are going to 2nd son ( as her wife is pregnent). my dh also asked them to go for one year. The main problem is during their frequent naggings maximum times i dint answered back and after few days i started self defencing myself then i started stop talking to them. so now they are going there. My main fear is that my son i want to join in day care but i have an inner fear whether it is good my motherly views have a fear to join him in day care( One thing my inlaws used to take care nicely to my son). i also have a fear that if she ( Cosister) gives birth to any son my hb acts too priority to their family and also now i cannot go to their houses for that functions. Allready my mil started her own comments indirectly to me. I also have a fear that if something happens to my inlaws at their house, my dh wont excuse me and says that u only the reason for that. I am really confused. I truly want to take care of my son. Pls deadly i need of good suggestion. What i have to do. Right now i am not talking to them and they also not ready to speak to me. pls help me
 
Name: confidentgirl
Country: U.S.A.

It's easy to say something than to do it, but here's my piece of advice from my own experience.Hope this helps. I am also an Indian girl in the same boat. My husband and I had love-arranged wedding 7 yrs ago and was a happy association. My FIL is a very nice person. Problem is my MIL. I don't care/bother about her interference, nagging etc. as I am avery strong, confident women. She makes a kurukshetra (a major battle ) whenever she visits us in US for 6 months. She screams,shouts, accuses, insults and it's literally like a battle field for absolutely no reason.My husband loves his parents,supports them whenin need and I respect them. GOD onlyknows what her problem is. Not just with me. She fights with my FIL, my husband and also my brother-in-law. My husband is very supportive and by me always. tnx GOD for that. anyways thats my story. My piece of advice is pls don't lose confidence, hope. 1. first thing to do is to get support from husband. Make husband understand in a polite manner not by complaining. 2. Set expectations for your MIL. Dont be rude and at the same time don't be a door mat. Say firmly this is who you are and you are to be treated with respect and she cannot insult, hurt or psychologically affect you. Be Strong and say this firmly that she has to be nice and normal towards you for u to continue your relationship with her. 3. Ignore minute things and document any major problems with her so you have support if fight goes outside of family. 4. IF you have kids,pls don't let the kids face any problems between DIL and MIL fights. If your MIL is quarreling with you, take kids outside for play or take them to another room to read books and be with your children rather than quarreling with MIL. If situation is worse, move out or ask IL's to leave and let your husband support them remotely and let him visit them whenever needed as he's their son. 5. Share your trouble with a trusted friend/siblings or parents and try to get a solution that works rather than being bad,lonely, hurt, depressed etc. 6. If you don;'t have kids and you can't deal with ILs and husband is not supportive, move on with your life as you have the right to lead a happy., peaceful life. Leave and get re-married or concentrate on your career. This is not sita's time to stay in trouble your whole life. Remember GOD only helps those who help themselves. Don't lose confidence. If u do it means your cruel in-laws won over you.BE STRONG. This is just a piece of advice as it worked for me. I was hurt in the beginning but I came out of it and stood up for myself and it's better now. My MIL is visiting us for 6months again next week. If she begins a battle again in front of our little girl, this is the last time she'll come over to our house. PS: I practice relaxation exercises and read about stress relief. It helps. Tnx everyone for reading.
 
Name: New mom and frustrated
Country: India

I have been married for 4 years now and recently delivered a baby girl. Mine is a love marriage and in-laws stay very far off. They visit us for a couple of months once a year. In the initial days of marriage itself I realized the kind of people they are. They are totally dependent on my husband for their finances and hence they are very meek and submissive in his presence. But they try to be very controlling and interfering in his absence and I am very firm and polite in snubbing them off. It worked for the last three years. I could keep my cool and peace of mind in their presence. The problems started when I got pregnant. They tried to control everything right from my apetite during pregnancy and made snide remarks that I am eating too much [I am a very small built person and had haemmaroids during pregnancy, bcos of which, I completely cut out fried items, non-vegetarian and fatty foods from my diet and still they spoke this way]. After delivery they were very wild that I had my mother stay with me at the hospital. My daughter is the first grand-daughter in my parent's side and my in-laws have experience handling 7 grand children so far. They insulted my mother at every act regarding her cooking (soft diet for me after delivery) to the way she handles my child. MIL even treated my mother like a servant. But my mom did not react at all, so that we can keep a good atmosphere at home for the sake of my baby, and keep my relationship with my husband good. I got furious about my MIL's behaviour and I tried to snub her off as usual, but it only worsened the problem. Finally my husband himself interfered and sent them back. I am dreading their next visit. I am also very worried as to how I am going to take care of my daughter when I get back to work. My parents are currently staying with me. I do not want to continue that arrangement as my in-laws are very mean people and will speak ill of them that they are staying at their daughter's place. I do not want my parents to be at the receiving end of such comments. I do not want to express my feelings to my husband openly. He loves me a lot but still the subject of discussion is his parents and I don't want to hurt him by bringing this up. I have to get back to work in a month from now. Any ideas on what arrangements I can make for my daughter's care during the day?
 
Name: New mom and frustrated
Country: India

I have been married for 4 years now and recently delivered a baby girl. Mine is a love marriage and in-laws stay very far off. They visit us for a couple of months once a year. In the initial days of marriage itself I realized the kind of people they are. They are totally dependent on my husband for their finances and hence they are very meek and submissive in his presence. But they try to be very controlling and interfering in his absence and I am very firm and polite in snubbing them off. It worked for the last three years. I could keep my cool and peace of mind in their presence. The problems started when I got pregnant. They tried to control everything right from my apetite during pregnancy and made snide remarks that I am eating too much [I am a very small built person and had haemmaroids during pregnancy, bcos of which, I completely cut out fried items, non-vegetarian and fatty foods from my diet and still they spoke this way]. After delivery they were very wild that I had my mother stay with me at the hospital. My daughter is the first grand-daughter in my parent's side and my in-laws have experience handling 7 grand children so far. They insulted my mother at every act regarding her cooking (soft diet for me after delivery) to the way she handles my child. MIL even treated my mother like a servant. But my mom did not react at all, so that we can keep a good atmosphere at home for the sake of my baby, and keep my relationship with my husband good. I got furious about my MIL's behaviour and I tried to snub her off as usual, but it only worsened the problem. Finally my husband himself interfered and sent them back. I am dreading their next visit. I am also very worried as to how I am going to take care of my daughter when I get back to work. My parents are currently staying with me. I do not want to continue that arrangement as my in-laws are very mean people and will speak ill of them that they are staying at their daughter's place. I do not want my parents to be at the receiving end of such comments. I do not want to express my feelings to my husband openly. He loves me a lot but still the subject of discussion is his parents and I don't want to hurt him by bringing this up. I have to get back to work in a month from now. Any ideas on what arrangements I can make for my daughter's care during the day?
 
Name: Nimisha
Country: India

Hi, My husband is the only son .. so my inlaws visit on and off to our place ... but whenever there are here esp my father in law I see my son behaviour is different he would expect him to feed or bathe him .... My father in law really spoils him .. I am actually worried about my son future .. I do tell my father in law to stop these all in vain ... he interfears in what i give him for food and tells that my son eats food with him without any fuss and with me he fusses (Infact he keeps poking in each of ladies issue in cooking , talks etc thinks he is very authoritative and smart looking and big socialite ))... My son eats food well with me in his absence ... I am in a dilema ... Kindly advise ... My son is 3 years old .. I was working previously and had my in laws and parents taking turns to take care of him .. I am now at home and facing all the problems
 
Name: sadwika.priya
Country: India

my opinion
 
Name: sadwika
Country: India

This forum is really increased the confident levels, before visiting this forum i use to think i only in the world facing the problems like this after seeing the other womens problems i feel i felt they are so many in the world suffering are alike like me. Eventhough the forum may not give direct solutions to the problem but giving suggestions which are making us to think twice before acting. Really thanks to the creator of the forum and i also agree with the topic bcoz i am following the same principles in my life my engaging myself in job, studies and playing with my kid and maintianing distance with my in laws, but i also suggest that you all also maintain little distance from your husbands untill he understands the importance of you. Surely he will.. all the best.


 

 
 
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