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You are here : home > Raising Children > Behavioral Problems > Indiscipline

Indiscipline

It is important to inculcate discipline in children at an early age to later on avoid the consequences of too much of pampering. Read on and find out the reasons for indiscipline in children and ways to deal with it. 


Nowadays most children believe in having things in one way and one way only - their own. And god forbid, if they do not get things the way they like, there is hell to pay. Indiscipline is rampant in society today, where it is the parents who seem more afraid of their children rather than the other way around. Parents do not seem to realise that by giving in to the child's demands, they are only making him or her more uncontrollable and a menace to society.
 

Yes, indiscipline is a behavioral disorder that is classified as an act of delinquency. Just like, lying, stealing and playing truant or running away from home. It is often the cause of a lot of mental, emotional and also physical damage. Such as damage to property in homes as well as in schools. An undisciplined child is an uncontrollable child and can do just about any damage when he or she does not get whatever he or she wants.
 

In the home environment

Who is to blame for the way a child turns out? Is it the fault of the parents' and their faulty upbringing, peer pressures or the fault of society at large? Today's parents lay the blame completely on the demands of society. When asked why she allowed her daughter to return home after 12 a.m. at night, Mrs. Joshi revealed that as all the other parents in the compound were allowing their children out together, she could not very well stop her daughter. Besides, her daughter was not going to listen to her in any case. Mr. Joshi thought it better to adjust to the times than to lose his daughter completely. The one time that he had tried to stop his daughter from going out, she had thrown her plate of food on the floor and not eaten for two days. As you can see, parents feel helpless.

But we must try and analyse how such a situation has come about. It has been observed that most people like spending time by themselves and actually encourage their children to stay out of their hair. Maybe they are working the whole day and just want a couple of hours of peace. In this way, they begin to alienate the child, who finally reaches a stage where he or she does not need them anymore. By now, the parents finally realise that they are losing their family and support system for their old age, and begin to give in to everything that their growing teenager demands, just to keep them happy, and in his or her good books. The situation is too late to remedy at this stage.
 

Indiscipline at school

Over the last decade, the standards of discipline are fast deteriorating in the school environment too. School is just not what it used to be anymore as very few schools are able to maintain the same standards of behavior. May be the teachers' do not have that same confidence and commanding personality as they used to. Or maybe work pressures have increased to such a degree that all the teachers can think of is completing the curriculum on schedule. Quite obviously, most of them seem to lack the dedication to go beyond the call of duty and the syllabus and contribute to the all-round development of the child.

One can not really blame them entirely, when you observe the huge number of children in each classroom, and the added burden of two to three shifts. To top all of this, the number of subjects and books have also increased tremendously and most children are finding it difficult to cope with these extra burdens. Most parents too, reason why they send their children for tutorials and serve to further increase their load. It is a vicious circle. Not only this, today's education system does not prepare the child for employment. The curriculum is far removed from practical knowledge and this makes the child's mind and feet wander. So as we can see, the basic fault lies with the education system. 
 

What can or should we do?

If the child is offered practical courses that cater to his requirements, he will have a purpose and therefore less time to indulge in indisciplined behaviour. His restlessness will be curbed, as he will be better occupied.  But until then, it is the duty of the teachers to help the child to cope with the load and to find a workable solution for those children who are breaking under the pressure. The parents too can contribute by spending quality time with the child, and taking a deeper interest in what is happening at school. They should make an effort to meet the teachers and find a solution to make their children's' schooling more productive and satisfying. Once the child realises that his parents are really interested in his welfare he might be willing to meet them halfway, rather than demanding his own way all the time.
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Name: Ravina Singh
Country: India

It is true that now a day’s children are badly behaved. Schools dont seem to care about the dsicpline aspect as much! But I’m happy to say that my kid’s school (Orchids International) not only concentrates only on curriculum they also their students to be disciplined both in school and home. It is an absolute necessity that kids be taught to behave properly in public and at home as well.
 
Name: vinit
Country: India

indiscipline is not good
 
Name: priya
Country: India

indiscipline brings arrogants in a child which makes him o her irresponsible ...
 
Name: Germain
Country: Other

i wanna say that indiscipline is really causing a meanace in all parts of the world in relation to children affairs. in my country ghana, many efforts has been made to help eliminate it and even our vice president has launched a campaign against it but we however hope and pray for the replenishment of the world
 
Name: truth
Country: Mauritius

the one and only cause of indiscipline is bad influence of peer group and bad surroundings.
 
Name: suman
Country: India

causes effects and remedies
 
Name: jessie
Country: Malaysia

can anyone tell me causes of indiscipline in school please?
 
Name: wola
Country: India

from nigeria,i want to know the causes,effects of indiscipline and how to stop indiscipline in schools.
 
Name: Hamdat
Country: Other

let me know the causes and effect of indiscipline on academic performance of students
 
Name: Tope
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i want to know the causes and effect of indiscipline on academic performance of students
 
Name: sam
Country: Malaysia

an article about disciplinary
 
Name: mas
Country: Malaysia

i want to know about disciplanary among youth in malaysia
 
Name: salman
Country: India

i want to know about the indicipline of student
 
Name: Akinrotimi seyi
Country: Other

indiscipline is a general operation among young people .this is caused because they are not saved.
 
Name: condo
Country: Kenya

i want to know the causes of indiscipline in school
 
Name: Amit
Country: India

english ne ta bipta pai hai..!!!!
 
Name: feliwizzy
Country: Other

i thing indicipline is a reflection of the homes the childen r coming from
 
Name: zaidi
Country: Malaysia

causes of indiscipline in schools is not only cause of parental guidence but also include influences from member,bad influences that and also have a bad of influences from a peer group.
 
Name: anju
Country: India

students are becoming quite notorious & indisciplined & i feel as if the teachers are bent upon destroying the future careers of the future citizens.
 
Name: destiny
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i am a nigerian. i want to know the causes the effect of indiscipline among the nigerian youths.
 
Name: veronica
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i want to see indian cases of indiscipline-research work
 
Name: valdez
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indisipline in schools is partly blamed on the poor management
 
Name: obyright@yahoo.com
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i am from nigeria,i want to know the causes,effects of indiscipline and how to stop indiscipline in schools. forward all answer to obyright@yahoo.com
 
Name: benjamin Heaven
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indiscipline in the eyes of the culprit is relative and normal and culturally bound
 
Name: Muhammad Galadima
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indiscipline is the main cause of our problems in nigeria, fear of god is the only way of salvation.


 

 
 
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