For some, work in the house seems to be never-ending. Here are some tips to help you tackle the task and put your home in order.
A housekeeper's job is often a never-ending one. It is a routine,
thankless job. With more and more ladies taking up jobs outside the
home it becomes imperative that the entire family pitches in to create
a homely atmosphere. Here are a few tips to help you tackle the job and put your home and consequently your life in order.
Get everyone involved
Women often prefer to do everything themselves. This is because they
feel that a certain job is to be done in a certain way and only they
can do it perfectly. They don't pass on responsibility to other family
members and feel cheated when no one lifts a finger to help. In reality
when all the members of the family work together, chores can be done in
a fraction of the time and everyone can have the satisfaction of having
contributed something towards the maintenance of their homes.
Match the job to the person
Each member of the family should be asked to take up a
particular task. The important thing is to make sure that the task is
suitable for their age and their interests. If your husband is a couch
potato he can cut vegetables and fruits
while watching his favorite TV show. Similarly your son, who is always
on the go, can be asked to run a few errands. However if you ask him to
peel the garlic he may not be so cooperative simply because it is not
in his nature to stay put in a place for more than five minutes.
Ask for Help
Whether it is your spouse, your kids or your in-laws,
asking for help always fetches the desired result rather. Avoid bossing
around. It is a good idea to sit with family members and prepare a list
of jobs to be done. Most of the times people don't understand the
volume of work involved and hence may not come forward to do things.
But once you have it in black and white, everyone can pitch in. Try to swap places for a day. Let your kids be
the parent for a day and you don the role of the kid. While they enjoy
the new role, they will also understand the hard work it involves.
Make it fun
On holidays when you expect your kids to clean their
rooms or their cupboards, switch on their favorite music. Get a pack of
popcorns and get them started. Everyone will be a lot more cooperative.
Don't forget to shower praises. Even if the job
is not done perfectly, don't make them redo it as by doing so you would
be killing their enthusiasm. Later when they are in a listening mood
you can gently point out the mistakes, so the next time around they can
correct themselves. It is better to give the instructions in a friendly
tone before they start the job, or to help them do it the first few times until they get the hang of it.
it is very much necessary to make kids self dependent we should teach them to do their own work themselves
its correct. every member of the family should do some part of the work. it helps in long run. nice article !!!
just an idea..
to keep the socks,
--> always keep it as pairs
--> have it in the show rack itself
--> have it in a box.. say a biscuit box, chocolate box.
--> leave the box open, else it is irritating for hubby to pick it up everyday.
it reminds me of my days i spent with my four siblings and my parents. my mother always expected us to help around the house and we did. but today with single or at the most two kids family we seem to be spoiling them by doing every thing for them. i am going to follow these instructions and teach my kids a thing or two. good job!
do the cleaning work reguarly. for eg:- devote half an hour for cleaning the kitchen(6.00am to 6.30 am).regularity in work makes things simple.dont strain yourself by doing the same thing for long. you can allot time for other acitivities. for eg:- gardening for half an hour daily. it makes things simple.allot time for each and every activity.for eg:- half an hour for watching tv.you can select your favourite programe.go to sleep as early as possible 10pm.we can get up early in the morning and it gives lot of energy for the next day. never underestimate the house-wifes job. because your husband and children can't do without you. always do the homework. preparing the list of items you have to cook or the other important work you have to do. it really helps.
clean the house regularly,to avoid strain on oneself and time consumption on doing it. and ofcourse, to make look your home sweet always.