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Name: Vishesh
Country: India
 Balancing between our expectation and our child’s expectation is very much important. When we simply deny our kid’s request or do not lend our ears to them they really become frustrated and start showing tantrums. So, try to hear your kid’s request first and then try to make them understand the right things.
Name: Prachi
Country: India
 I read an article somewhere that small kids do not have logical thinking. The part of mind that helps in logical thinking fully develops by the age of 30. So for small kids if you try to convince them while they crying or angry, like, do not do this, we will do this or this is not correct. It will not help them. Instead try to calm them by diverting their mind. For example, say things like "Are you really angry" , "you really want to cry" or "this thing made you angry" and once they have their ear, say something else to divert. I tried this with my 4 years daughter and it really worked. I am sure it will work for your kids as well. The part of mind that have Logical thinking(or we say mature mind) develops only by 25-30 of age. Thats the reason teens are always against parents. Happy Parenting!
Name: prasanna.lakshmi
Country: India
 my 3 years son is very adamant and stubborn.he wont listen what we tell him,tried punishing him.he looks in to our eyes when he is shouted. he got no fear. he even gets angry when we laugh at him. at some time i loose my temper n hit him,which i should not do.but at that moment it just happen.its getting tough with him day by day.........really worried that ill loose his love. plz help me. help me control my temper.
Name: Medha Hegde
Country: india
 my daughter is 4 years old and she has very bad temper, so no one plays with her properly. so she becomes more anger and hit them. i tried to convince her so many times but she doesn't understand instead she gets angry with me and aterts hitting me. please give me some more suggestions thanks
Name: Satish Nair
Country: india
 my three year old son have a very bad temper. whenever some relative come with their children to my place, my son first he will play with them for a while. then after some time he start fighting and hitting them, he don't like sharing his things with other. i don't know i don't know how to tell him. please give me some more tips..... thanks
Name: Big Mama
Country: usa
 my 8 year old have a bad temper one mintue he is fine the next he is like a wild beast. his father is not in his life i really don't know if that have something to do with it. i don't know what else to do. i even thought about giving him up but i don't know what i would do if i loose him. he dosen't know his father's family he is taking care of kids that are not his. maybe that's my son's problem. i need help i don't know how much i can take
Name: sapna
Country: india
 dont get angry with her when she's already angry. instead, let her calm down first. ask her what is making her angry. have a peaceful discussion, and dont interrupt at the moment when she has lost her temper. dont shout at her for hitting other children. ask her gently why she felt she needed to hit them. ask her why they didnt play with her. let her come up with the answers instead of u telling her.
Name: fairies
Country: U.S.A.
 my four year old daughter has a bad temper, i try to be strict with her i punish her. she kicks and hits things, she doesnt hit people but she will hit the couch, the bed anything. i dont no what to do for her anymore. if anyone has any tips on what i should do please let me no.
Name: Honey
Country: India
 my son - 8 years has an awful temper; while i have been extremely patient thru his outbursts - it doesn't seem to work ; i'd definetely like to stay away any physical punishment; but can somebody tell me how do u handle temper tantrum??
Name: Aparna N
Country: India
 good tips! i would also like to add that when toddlers display temper, it is sometimes because they do not know how to verbally express themselves in the situation they are in.
Name: cheryl
Country: Canada
 i have a almost three yr old, he is a very sweet boy but when he does not get this way with somthing he either hits me or hits something else, he can also be violent with our cat. i do not know where he is getting this at and it worries me. i try everything with him sitting down, talking with him, putting him in his room and taking his things away,also putting him in corner..i have gotting to the point when sometimes i just let him have his way or give him what he wants and i know this is wrong...any tips for me would be great!! thnxx
Name: shashi
Country: India
 my 9 year old son have bad temper. he deminate everyone if not lesson him he was angry samml samll things. i tries t convince him many time but he doesn't understand.he is very intelligent but he not want study. in school always comes complaint about his behavours. how i can my son become polite, manneer, displine and take interest in study himself. he is study in 5th class. please give me suggestins. thanks
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