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Name: hep?me_plz
Country: honduras
can somebody tell me how to stop??

Name: sad
Country: usa
i know god has a plan for me and everything. even my mother tells me i'm 'wasting away'. but it's a disease in my head that wont go away no matter how many times ive sked him to help me. i eat very little, and throw up if i feel bad about it sometimes.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
help me plz ur just making excuses. the fact that u said u dont understand it and u want help tells me u do no what ur talking about and ur strong anough 2 make a change, so do it. dont give up and eat normal, if u have troble and have a hard time just pray to the lord, i promise u it will help.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
sad, i know u probley don't want 2 here this but it seems like ur mother is in dinal about u having a real problem. shes probley just thinking ur naturally thin, when u really have a disorder. u need to talk to her and express whats been happening to u and both of u sould go to the lord. let him lead u to whats right, like diving rocks said, im praying for u. we r both here 4 u if u need 2 talk. luv always, leer.

Name: sad
Country: usa
my mother said to me, "you couldn't gain weight or get fat even if you ate cheesecake everynight for a year!" hahahaha. should i really believe her?

Name: Leer
Country: usa
diving rocks!, scuba diving sounds cool. b 2 scared 2 do it myself but thats cool how u feel ur experiancing the wonders that god created. how old r u? just wanting to know. i'll b 15 in october. do u have aim? (aol instant messenger)? i think it would b cool 2 chat with u. well god bless and have a wonderful day. luv always, leer.

Name: sad
Country: usa
i wish i could stop being afraid of eating.

Name: sad
Country: usa
i think god is punishing me because i haven thrown up in a while and i thought maybe i wasnt going to again but yesterday i was back in that bathroom.

Name: help me plz
Country: honduras
how can i be making excuses i know exactly what i am talking about, i know i can change but even if i try i cant find a way out,what can i actually do when i feel lonely?

Name: Bulimic_death_i_am
Country: usa
i think i'm gonna get my weight up to 105 and then i'm gonna go anorexic.at least i will gain a little bit befor going anorexic.

Name: Worried
Country: usa
i have a friend who is 5'5 and weighs 80-85 pounds! she used to be 100 somethin' two years ago and now she is totally skinny but thinks she is still fat! what should i do?

Name: Am i fat?
Country: usa
i am 12 years old and am 5'2 and weigh 110 pounds! all my friends are so skinny and they brag about it. one day, before class (summer school) my friends talked and said i was obese behind my back but i heard it cause i wanted to talk to them. i think i am fat and i read a fashion magazine and saw those shinny models. what shold i do, and am i fat?

Name: Bulimic_death_i_am
Country: usa
hey,everyone... diving rocks,i'm sorry if i got mad at you,and i'm sorry if i took up some of your time.it's just i really really hate people and it's hard for me to deal with life.i'm in so much pain.the only way i could ever get some of that pain out was if i were to cut myselfe,i have cut myselfe many times befor,i guess it's the only way i can get anything out.i really hate being in pain.i really want help,i really really do.it's just i feel if i get help or tell someone it will hurt them to much,i cant hurt anyone,i just can't,i would kill myselfe but that would hurt alot of people.i rather be in pain the hurt anyone,i just cant get help.but i will get my weight up to about 100 pounds or a little less,and then i'm gonna go anorexic i just cant take this anymore.but at least if i were to gain a little bit i woudent die as fast as i would if i were to go anorexic right now............. love always aszure.

Name: Bulimic_Death_i_am
Country: usa
leer,my family dosent know i only way 42lbs,and they will never find out.i'm sick of life,and i dont want to die,i really dont,i mean i'm not scared of death but dieing scares the holey heck out of me.i'll be fine,and please just shut up about it.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
aszure, u dont need to b doing this, cutting is bad no matter how much u do it. i really don't care that u dont cae what i have 2 say because im gona tell u the truth and that u need help no matter how much it hurts u or makes u mad. u have problems and u do need help. it might hurt ur family but if u obly weight 42 lbs they probley already no. they will care and help u throught this so tell them, pray everday and talk to the lord he is there 4 u. lesson 2 me no matter how much u dont care. please! luv always leer.

Name: sad
Country: usa
u know at first i didnt want anybody knowing about my eating diesorer(s). but now that ive told, it's a lot easier. the people know about me and they try to make me feel better. if ur ever hiding it, tell. it'll be a lot better and easier for you. now my relatives make 'special' food for me. like stuff with vegetables and fat-free, low-cal, high fiber, all that stuff. they're really sweet. believe me. it wont hurt anybody if u tell them. it'll hurt you if you dont tell them. im prayin for all of us suffering and i thank god there are caring people like leer and diving rocks.

Name: R
Country: usa
hey ppl. i want u all to know that know matter what ur size, have some confidence. i gave up caring wut ppl think about me in 8th grade, in 9th now. i tell it works. its from genetics, but i'm 14 and wiegh 81 pounds. im really short, like 4'11". anyway, you all should be happy with the bodies u have....its the only one u got.

Name: Cat
Country: usa
i automatically throw up constantly and i can't help it, but i'm also really fat. damn it! i guess i've gotta cut out beer...mmm...be er...

Name: Bulimic_Death_i_am
Country: usa
lissen,eating disorders kinda run in my family,like befor my mother had kids she only was like 90lbs,and she's 5'4,my older sister she's 16 5'8 121lbs about a month ago she only was like 95 lbs,so i guess i just kinda get it from my mother,i dont need help,and i'm not tell anyone about my weight or my stupid eating disorder,so if you dont shut up i will never come here again,but if you do shut up about this i'll stay and i'll teel a firend of mine.but i will not go to some adult or a stupid doctor,i hate older people,they anoyy me.love aszure.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
diving rocks, were are you? you haven't posted anything in a while. i was hoping to talk to you. do you have aim? (aol instant messenger) luv always leer!

Name: Leer
Country: usa
azsure, ok, i'll drop it but i didn't say you had to only tell grown ups, at least a friend though. please tell this friend. well even though you don't want to hear what i have to say i still am praying for you though. luv always leer. oh also, azsure, is that your name? cause if it is its cool. please don't have any hard feelings tord me, i just want to help, not get in your face.

Name: sad
Country: usa
everything is soooooo hard now because i am on an anti-depressant that decreases appetite (yay!). but because my anorexia, i have to be monitored on my weight. so now i cant go any lower than 115, my weight now, or ill be taken off it. and it really helps me! so i am so scared im gonna be fat. all i need is reassurance that i wont get fat. but i cant find it.......

Name: Bulimic_Death_i_am
Country: usa
and umm leer,of corse aszure is my real name..

Name: Bulimic_Death_i_am
Country: usa
thanks lear.i'm not mad at you,i just am a little unhappy and i'm sorry if i was rude to you in any way.but i really dont like telling people about the stupid eating disorder thigie,it really bothers me,i do apericieate the help though.i never really ask for help even if i need it,a firend of mine i dont really know her but her and i have been e-mailing each other for a long time now,she's helped me alot and so have you.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
aszure, thank u for being do sweet. i think that u will grow up to be a perfectly normal person with no problems. you sound nice and with that attitude it will get you anywhere. praying always, luv leer. also have you talked to diving rocks in a while? i haven't and i want to talk to her about something.

Name: Bulimic_Death_i_am
Country: usa
hey diving rocks,i dont have a lot of time right now so umm i just want to say thanks.and leer i really like talking to you,you sound like a veary veary good person,and diving rocks what's your real name?well i have to go see my tharipist so umm bye.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
thanx diving rocks! if u have aim im me @ leer4eva and talk to me soon.

Name: diving rocks!
Country: fiji
cat, the bible says that we shouldn't drink beer. it makes our mind fuzzy and we can't think straight. god wants us to always be on the alert. i pray for you cat, i pray that you can find god... he will direct your path, i promise. trust in the lord!!!! always, diving rocks!

Name: diving rocks
Country: fiji
leer, hey... sorry don't have aim. bummer, huh?

Name: Bulimic_Death_i_am
Country: usa
diving rocks,why wont you tell me your real name?i'll make a bet with you i'll tell you what state i live in if you tell me your name.not a very good bet but yet it is still one.

Name: diving rocks, again... :)
Country: fiji
azsure, hey! i'm glad you're doing better, god answers prayer. :) thank-you for you kind words. my real name, hey it's diving rocks. jk (just kidding)...but diving does totally rock and it awesome in fiji. yeah, diving rocks. okay, well i'll continue to pray for you and praise god that you are getting better. always, diving rocks (my real name isn't as cool as 'diving rocks!' ha ha, so where are you from? the us but what state?)

Name: Bulimic_Death_i_am
Country: usa
diving rocks,nevermind i dont need to know your name,i'm from florida but i now live in california.i would kinda like to know your name but og well i can live with not knowing it.

Name: Aszure(death_i_am
Country: usa
hey lear,if you want you can chat with me on the aim thinggie my screenname is deathiam664,well i dont know if you wanna chat with me but it might be fun.

Name: sad
Country: usa
im really trying hard to stop throwing up...but its so much pain...i try to give myself 'positive messages' like my mom said, but sometimes the voices are stronger...i really wish i could stop.................

Name: Bulimic Death I am
Country: usa
hey,cass,lol,it feels so weird to call you cass but i like it,anyway i live in south california,it gets really really hot,i acually hate living in cali but well i'm gonna be moving up to orgen soon so well i have to go but i 'll try to keep in touch,oh and i'm doin alot better and i've gaind alittle weight,well bye, love aszure.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
cass, lol, i live in asheville, north carolina. it must rock to live in fiji, i mean north carolina is great but i hear that where ur from its beautiful!!!!! well whats ur e-mail address? i'd like to email you one day, well take care, always praying, leer, linda.

Name: diving rocks!
Country: fiji
hey azsure! praise god, i'm so happy that you are getting better. god does answer prayer! in my bible i've been reading a lot about prayer. the psalmist wrote something like 'god will answer your prayers.' it was really awesome to get on this and see god did answer our prayers for you. azsure, keep me posted as you continue to get better. i'll continue to pray southern california? cool, where la or san diego? love, cass (i know, it's so weird to see y'all write cass instead of diving rocks. yeah but it's cool. wait what's your name?)

Name: sad
Country: Other
yes i am catholic, cass. i pray every night. i ask him to help me feel better about myself, although i am severely depressed.....i also ask god to give me a flat stomach, although that's not something he would actually care about. but i would love to just have a flat stomach.

Name: diving rocks!
Country: fiji
hi you guys! let me share a quote with y'all. "you have to live life every day knowing how precious god's gifts are." -- elizabeth smart. so what elizabeth is saying is god has given us so much, we need to be thankful to him... god does answer prayers, sad. you said god doesn't care about your flat stomach. he does care... i've voiced my concerns about my appearance to god. i asked him to help me lose weight and to help my appearence of myself not get between my relationship with god. anything can becom an idol which seperates you from your relationship with him. i don't want my appearace to do that. god did answer my prayer regarding my appearace and it didn't get in my relationship with god. i lost weight a safe way and gave it up to god. it's so much easier when it's in god's hands. it makes me calm and secure. so don't take anything god has given you for granted. each object, friend, family member, and experience that you come accross is to help you grow... remember this, you have to live life every day knowing how precious god's gifts are. in his grip, cassandra (cass)

Name: diving rocks!
Country: fiji
hi azsure. i'm glad you're doing better. i'll continue to pray for you. i don't care what you say to leer, the world doesn't revolve around me... if leer is helping you somehow, praise god. always, fiji girl

Name: sad
Country: usa
ya know, this kinda gets me mad to see ppl ask how to lose weight on an anorexic support site, or whatever. it's annoying and also, it might give other anorexic girls ideas and they'll get even worse.

Name: HOW
Country: singapore
i am turning to 21 this october..... i found myself very depressed by my body weight and shape which makes me cannot concentrate on whatever things i do....i have gained 3 kg in one week and can feel a big lump of fats covering me which makes me lost confident.....i am 1.7m tall and 68kg.....i am getting into university tomorrow, will be starting my new life there.... but now i feel frighten, my heart beats faster and faster.... may be i am too bothered by my weight, i lost my confident, i cant relax.....i felt that i am not myself anymore....i dun know where my spirit have gone....who is going to help me?? whenever i talk to somebody, i just cannot match their key....i know my friends have been feeling ignorance by my behaviour....but i have been trying hard to get back myself...how how....i really dun know how.....

Name: BulimcDeathIAm
Country: usa
hey samantha,the only reason we talk to each other on this page is because not everyone can comunicate in a difrent place,and we talk to each other as people not just listing whats wrong with areself but to help each other and to let people know that we care about them,and sure i have some problems with myself but leer and diving rocks help,they dont just leave a message they acually talk to me,and i aprsate it alot,so dont just go saying that this site cant help you because it can if you let it.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
samantha, i'm so sorry if you think this website cant help with that stuff. thats what its here for. we are all here to help any one who needs it and to lesson. the reason we talked about im is because we wanted to talk and help each other outside of this page. please don't leave this site without talking to someone. diving rocks and i are here for all and will help you and guide you through your tuff times with the lord. please still come here we can help you and any one who wants to lesson. thelord is with you in your tuff times love, leer.

Name: Samantha
Country: australia
i'm looking for advice on this crazy website and all i find is these people like talking about something totally unrelated to my weight. thanks for all the comments they sure help, not! listen, i'm not trying to be like a creep or anything but isn't this a comment page? not like a page to like im each other. if you've gotta talk, do it over like aim not this. dont expect me to come back to this website anytime soon, your advice doesn't help at all. so just think about it before you post all these comments that doesn't have anything to do with eating disorders. i'm struggling too, you know!

Name: sad
Country: usa
you dreally dont wannna be like this, fat. it controls your mind. you dont even know you're skinny. its better on ur side. trust me.

Name: Leer
Country: usa
fat, its better to be over weight than to be under! im 220 and not happy w/ my weightbut id rather be big and happy than small and sick, u know? well everyone i'm praying and get well soon! luv always leer.

Name: fat
Country: usa
i don't know how you do it. i am 217 pounds! i can't stop eating. it is a drug! when i eat it's like i'm on top of the world. i wish i could stop. i wish i were you.

Name: sad
Country: usa
you dreally dont wannna be like this, fat. it controls your mind. you dont even know you're skinny. its better on ur side. trust me. ive been on both sides.

Name: India?
Country: india
you people, are you all from india? i mean can people who aren't from india like get on this like think? are you from india? answer me, please, i wanna know cuz i wanna write something but i'm not from india. yeah, so if you can like tell me that would be great. fab, awlays.

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