Raising happy, successful and co-operative children are important parenting goals. Here are some things that you can do to achieve these goals.
Home is where the heart is. It is true everyone wants their house to be an abode, a perfect place, always clean and supremely neat. In simple words and in one line, a home should be “a heaven on earth”.
If you want to make all family members happy, you need to be systematic, understanding, sharing the work and also caring for each other. All this can happen with our initiative, it needs to be slowly constructed and created over a period of time.
Let us see, how we can raise happy, successful and co-operative kids with our small but great initiatives.
1. Inculcate Right Discipline
A disciplined life is very important to be successful and happy in life. No one can achieve success in life without following a right discipline. So, while raising children
, importance of inculcating right discipline
should not be overlooked.
2. Make You Kids Feel Important
Always, try and talk to children and share their day’s experiences. As we regularly give time and attention for their talk, they will surely feel proud and important in sharing everything with you as a parent. It will be easy to correct them on daily basis and you will be able to monitor them on regular basis. Also discussing on movies, news items and asking their opinion will show their ability to think. It is not necessary to conclude with anything. It can also be left as a discussion and leave everyone to have their own view point.
3. Just Listen and Enjoy
Lighter moments at home can always prevail, if we listen to each other and enjoy. Generally, we think even after our discussions. So it is just enough to listen and enjoy. Sometimes, it is important to discuss few topics and leave the conclusion to individual judgment. You need not take overnight decisions or end any topic for ever. It is just listen and enjoy.
4. Never Ignore Your Child
When your child is trying to tell something to you, never ignore her. It is extremely important to listen to what children are saying with great interest. If you ignore them and postpone the conversation, they may not feel the need of telling you everything that is happening with them. Eventually, they may even stop telling you about the important things as well. Listening to your child earnestly will help you to teach your child the importance of listing
to others when they want to say something and co-operating with them.
5. Give Some Space to Yourself and Your Child
Be very committed when you are busy, stick to time when you are at your work. You should also learn to excuse yourself, when you are busy. This way, your child will give importance to his studies, play time, food and also recreation. She learns to create time for all her needs and requirements. If you are little systematic and demonstrating the same, you tend to show your positive attitude and remain successful at your work. This will turn to become an example for your child. He will learn to keep his commitments and always not focus only on the result.
6. Delegate Work and Relax
Sometimes, even if your time permits, learn to stay away and delegate work. This will make everyone at home efficient, co-operative and successful
. This will make the family self- reliant. Once the work is delegated, stop instructing. Everyone needs to perform at their freedom and in their own style. After the work is done, please make sure that you check if it is done properly or not.
Raising happy, successful and co-operative kids is a duty of every parent. It is like gifting our society a beautiful creation of god in the form of your child. This is a real big job of every parent. This should be an initiative from every single family in a country. A well groomed child is always a happy citizen who becomes useful in this society.How to raise happy and successful children? What are the ways to teach children to be co-operative? Which parenting goals should parents try to achieve? Discuss here.