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Hi,i m Raaj.my family planed to do upanayanam for me.my parent does not allow me for hair cutting since my age of 8 year. now my hair is 3.8 foot long. my mother and my sisters care my long hair they put oil three day in a week.my sister apply different style at me. they want my hair grow more faster.when i was 9 year old my mom and my sister took me in jewelry shop and piercing my both earsand nose.they put jhumka in my ears and gold nose ring in my nose.after that they buy for me girli dress like skirt,chudi etc.at my birth day my mom and my sister give me many set of bangles, angklets, earing jhumkas etc.my hairs so long duo to struggle of my mom and sisters.at wedding,birthday,holi ceremony i wore girls cloths,shoes,makeup,every kind of jewelry such as gimmiki, bangles,anklets, nose ring,etc.then mom puts Gajra in my long hair with the help of pins.
they also put mendi on my hands and feet with different design.
Now i required your help for my cermony:-
1-what sort of hairstyle will suit me.personally i like long hair styles some hairstyle that is very girlish.2-What sort of earring should i wear? my mom told traditional gold jhumkas and gold nose ring like bride nos ring
3-for how much time should i wear earrings?4-what sort of dress should(must be feminine) i wear? 5-i have thick eyebrows if i shape eyebrows will they grow even more thicker?? 6-should i pierce my ears again in other part of the ears in the ceremony as my mom told that they piercing again double earing ?7- which kind of shoes i wore?8- which kind of wax i use?plz help me.
Chaitu replied. 1st of all any one who looks at your query will get a good laugh for the day. It' s very strange and peculiar. I hope you are boy and not a girl to wear all these things. Grow up young man, see the world around you, it' s changing very rapidly.