Relationships  Discussion Forum

hi
i really need help! lately i am having problems with my husband. He is good, he takes care of my baby and he is hardworking. We had a love marraige. He used to be great before marraige but ever since we got married he is less affectionate towars me. He make lot of fun with my friends and family friends, and i become very possesive. My mom told me not to be very possessive as this leads to broken marraiges. But tell me how should i get back his feelings? when he had before marraige. I want thim to be little more romantic, and enjoy life as he is busy studying and working. We live in USA and i know life is very busy here, but that does'nt mean one should stop enjoying life.
please answer help me out.
thanks a lot Rashmi replied. Maybe you can take the initiative yourself and plan romantic dinners and outings. Yes possessiveness can cause discomfort to both of you and maybe you need to channelise your attentions to some hobbies to get out of this. Remember marriage is not iron shackles which will restrict him from the rest of the world but a fine silken thread which remains bound and unbroken by the couples own responsibility. You have to learn to trust him.