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Name: Abhishek

Hi all.
I am a 27 year old guy, getting married soon to a 24 yr old girl.
Before, I come down to my prob, let me tell you something about myself.
Since my childhood, I have studied in a NON CO-ED school. During my college years too, I secluded myself from girls. It was not like, I was not intersted, rather say I never got a chance.
Currently, I am working in a heavy engineering company, so I dont have lot of females at my workplace.
So, u see I never got sufficiently in touch with girls.
As a result, I am too dumb at communication with girls. I am too scared to approach girls. And whenever I do..I just stand open mouthed, not getting what to say like a dumb, or whenever I try, I blurt out something non-sense.

Now, since my marriage is fixed with a nice girl, I am trying my best to talk nicely with her.
We hav talked only twice over the phone since now.

Now my real prob is that, whenever we talk, I address her as ' TUM' and she calls me ' AAP' .
I also talk to her nicely and sometimes call her ' AAP' to show that I rewspect her.But I want her to call me ' TUM' .
But at the same time, I am in doubt whether, this liberty would make her reckless and she may lose respect for me in future. You know quarrels and petty fights are common in marriage, so is it possible that she may later take me for-granted and easily put up fights or put me down etc. etc.

Please suggest guys.
Thanx.

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