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how r u?

i am feeling much better now. we had a very good relaxing weekend. we slept a lot, just lazed around & spent good time together in the weekend which lightened both of our' s mood. also my ovulation studay got over yesturday. however hard i try to relax, when its going on, my anxiety level is very high. so now i am relaxed & this time when we had those secessions, though i could not relax myself much my dh got very relaxed & helped me relax a bit. this time my doc didn' t go for iui but we tried naturally & will see what happens. meanwhile we r enjoying with eachother in new realx mode. and this also helps me concentrate on my work better.

now its like our roles have got reversed i was like that before few years i used to take everytihng easy & use to relalx whereas it was difficult for my dh at that time now its reverse. but he is helping me a lot like I did in past with him.

how r thing between u two. try to relax & make peace with eachother. Dd replied. HI,

How r u?

I had a good weekend. but I was very sad after the girls left on sunday evening. even my co-sil' s daughter also stayed back on saturday.

also yestyrday i was very upset to write bcs i also received pragnancy news from someone & i felt happy for her & decided to help her. but at the same time went into crying spell 2-3 times in the day. It was similar feeling to yours about which u had expressed earlier.
today i am bit ok & will try to concentrate in my work. Dd replied. Hi,
I hope you r able to see your doctor & feeling better. I am ok. its just that work is increasing a lot in office day by day & i am in the process of employing few people to share my workload, so hope it will be better.
Today i went to see my doc, so she gave me the injection which she gives me everytime on 3rd day of my period & i will strat fertyl & such medicine from today as usual. so on 14 th i will go foer my ovulation study & she wil try to organise another relaxation seccesion on that day. Its good we have supportive DH otherwise this situation would have been nightmares for us.

My niece(5 yr. old) is coming to stay with me tonight for weekend as bro & bhbhi has some business inspections. so I am looking forward to having fun weekend. i have invited some froends with their daughter to play with my niece so I guess I will have good time.

you take care & get well soon. Dv replied. Hey hi...

how r u? today a friend gave news of pregnancy... i felt very happy for her but also was feeling sad as i am unable to give the same. it hurts does' nt it? not that i am not happy for her but i feel sad for my self that nothing is happening... for the past few weeks i have this strange white discharge which is thick and yellowish. my burning sensation has also not subsided rather now i have buring sensation all over and all day and now after beding its getting worst. my doc is out of town so will have to wait for a day to show her. i dont know of any home remedies too. any feedback would be appreciated... i dont know why things are happening to me this way... Dd replied. Hi,
yesturday i had brownish spoting so i was hopeful that it is implantation bleeding but my period started today, that to 6 days early so feeling very low.
anyways i am trying to get out of it. i talk to my doctor & she says we will give u injections & medicines & continue ovulation study but not do IUI untill your PCTS test becomes positve and for that she is planing to give me another seccession next week for relaxation.
I alos read 1 article recenly. it was about mental block & how it affetcs fertility. they say that sometimes in your subconcious mind u have fear that how u will survive nine motnhs & than the labourpain or sometimes after kid will come what negetive effects it will have in your personal/prefessional life etc. or may be man can have fear if his income is low that how he will take of extra responsibilty of kid etc. all this hidden fears can have effect on man/women' s fertility.
so we really have to relax ourselves & try to get rid of all the fears we have in our mind & leave it all to god. its very hard to do than say.
also I agree with u that time is running out & we have hectic life & schedules. i have tried to change my situation little bit by leaving job which was very hectic before 6 months & starting my own consultancy with the help of my dh. which gives me frredom to spend time on treatment when required. but now in this also i am flodded with work. my doc advices me to imerse myself in work & says that it will reliev your anxiety. so i am trying to organise to employ some staff to share workload but it will take some time to employ & train people.
also i have this month in hand to try. than next month my dh will be traveling so wan' t be possible. aslo we r not doing IUI THIS MONTH & GOING TO TRY ONLY NATURALLY SO LETS SEE WHAT HAPPENS.
sORRY FOR THE LONG MASSAGE. I WAS JUST POURING MY THOUGH OUT TO RELAX MYSELF.

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Dd dv replied. Hey hi...

thanks for the nice msg... we are doing pretty good. weekend has been hectic and i just got my chums... it was expected as this time both of us were suffering from fungal infection. My dh is out on training and i am also traveling for another 2 weeks so i think even dec nothing is gonna happen. Some times i dont understand how to react to such situations... on one side we r trying hard and time jus seems to be running fast and on the other we have hectic lives and work schedules. Its difficult to manage both actually. But yea after reading your earlier msgs i have consciously tried to calm alot and trying not to get too anxious about anything. I just hope we get our respective good news soon :) I plan to go for IUI or ICSI sometime in feb or march.