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I am married for 10 years with no luck for kids. my husband is the only son to his parents. My husband is nice to me but sometimes I can see his frustration. I was thinking may be I should take a divorce and let him marry someone else. Atleast I will be away from the guilt that I am not the cause for their unhappiness. I am independent enough to take care of myself. I don' t think he has any divorce ideas though..

Please suggest. Anjum replied. L K,

Have you checked out the root of your not bearing a baby? Is his sperm count good enough to bear you a baby? Have you checked out your fertility issues. Infertility is no big deal these days, there are lots treatment for almost all the different kind of problems.

I suppose, you should check out these things before you think of a D. What if the problem is with him and his next W also does not bear him a child? If the problem is with you, you could go for a ova donation and IVF etc. Do not take action on marriage or on life before you have explored all medical avenues. Even if the problem is with him, you could still bear HIS child by IVF. Or in the extreme case get a sperm donation.