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Hello,
Somebody guide me pls..and tell me what I should do., iam finding myself helpless
Now a day’s me and my husband having fights every alternate days. He is shouting and getting angry on me for very small things…as if he can’t tolerate me.
I will be leaving for vacation to India for 3 weeks with my little one (my husband annual leaves didn’t get approved). And also during that time husband will be shifting to our new house. There is so much of stress doing the packing for both (vacation and shifting) that im really getting tired and headachy. He is not helping right now since he knows that he has to a lot cleaning of old house and shifting alone when I go for my vacation…
But I feel im trying my best to keep him happy since I’m going, but nothing works….he yells and swears at me front of little one…and I feel helpless since I don’t have enough energy to fight back.
Just the other day …after doing lot of house work and cooking, I sat down next to him relaxing, checking my mail, not even 10mins are done and he asks to get dinner In sarcastic way (but no intention to hurt him) I said u cant see your wife relaxing for few minutes. Oh god, he threw such big tantrum over that and yelled me and didn’t let me say a word. And had his food alone. I really didn’t understand why did he react so much and like these small many incidences are happening since 2 weeks. My little bit of ego is coming in here since I really didn’t like him swearing at me front of my kid and no appreciation from for the work I’m doing, thts I am too just keeping quite instead of fighting back.
I have got only 8 days left to go and really want to patch up before I go…really don’t want sour memories with me on my holiday……help
sanchi replied. its happen i can understand and i suggest u to think may be he is little frustated coz u r going on holidays in india and will be with urs luv ones and he cant go with u and will hv to stay here and wuld hv same boring life above all he has to stay alone without you which he is not able to discuss u all this may b doset want to show u how he will miss u or may be he doset want ur holidays get effected i adv u to pls try to understand y he is behaving like this and hv a peacefull disscussion with him and tell him how much u get hurt of his behaviour and how much u luv him and dont wanna go like this i m sure u will fell better all the best