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Hi all,
I' ve always received good help from this board and most of the topics are actually helping.
Here I share with you my experiences of a married life.I need suggestion about my queries and unsatisfaction.
My husband loves me crazily.The thing is he' s very simple and introvert.He would keep kissing me all day long if I sit close to him which I like but its more like a father loving his daughter.He treats me like a child (we' ve been married for 3 yrs). I expect him to be romantic atleast in bed but he would finish his task and again start kissing me like he' s kissing his baby.
though he would hug me very often for no reasons many times but he cannot talk romantic or atleast talk something good for me on my b' day or anniversary.
In front of his parents he would totally forget me and his parents also don' t feel the need of giving us some privacy nor does he feel like that when his parents are there.Don' t know if he is shy or doesn' t feel the need.
At times we both just sit together and watch TV continuously without talking.He does not feel the need to talk..
I' ve tried to speak with him a lot of times on a lot of topics but he doesn' t seem to understand.
Please give me some advices.I have changed myself for him but I guess thats it I could do.Now I expect him to do things for me.
Also can anyone advice me how can I have my husband ask me(speak to me)for having more and more sex. Sonia replied. i just want to say that you are not the only one that has this problem. One thing i know for sure when my husband' s parents were here, he completely ignored. It was so hard to get his attention. I had to literally scream at him just to get his attention. When my husband had to take me out for dinner, he would especially ask his parents or his mother for permission to take me out for dinner. I thought that was just pathetic! You are not the only one. i know a lot of men who ignore their wives when thier parents are here. They behave like their wives don' t exist or they are not even married.
Speaking of privacy, some parents have never had privacy themselves in their married life, so how on earth, can they understand that you and your wife need privacy and time alone. It is your husband who is going to have to think about this and take action.You are going to have to send the message out to him some how.i really don' t understand why these husbands ignore us when their parents are around. i just don' t get it.

One thing for sure is that when my husband' s parents come here, i will definitely not let him see that i am getting annoyed with this behavior of his.i am just going to act like this does not affect me. I thought this was just my husband because he has a good heart, but it is with a lot of other husbands. Sridhar replied. it is really un believable... smiley replied. Anybody please help........